I'm 16 & pregnant, i don't think i can tell my mum am afraid she might hate me?

Question

I'm 16 & pregnant, i don't think i can tell my mum am afraid she might hate me?

Answer 1

You should have thought of that before you had s*x.  Quit being immature and just tell her.  You need prenatal care.  It's not about you anymore, it's about your baby.

Answer 2

Cross, upset, disappointed, a whole range of feelings - but "hate" - I seriously doubt it. She is going to know, sooner or later. and inevitably, and I just think that, no matter how hard it is, it would be much better that you get the courage together to tell her rather than she finds out any other way.

Best of luck!!

Answer 3

First of all congrats, second of all I think you should tell your mum because in the end you made a mistake, and everybody makes those,granted your mistake was big, but i was in the same postion with my gf and we told her parents together. They were mad as h**l but over time they came to accept it, but then it turned out the child wernt mine. But trust me tell her you will feel better knowing she knows and knowing you have someone to support you. hope this helps.  

Answer 4

Your Mum won't hate you. She may be shocked and upset to start wit but she will offer you her support. You really should tell her she will respect you for doing so.

Answer 5

well you will have to tell her at some point and she might be upset but she will always love you no matter what but never do abortion do adoption because it is still a baby no matter what it is cruel and unfair to the baby you brought here keep it here

Answer 6

hey I'm not gonna sugar coat it...your mums gonna be pissed...shes gonna cry and yell blah blah blah you might not speak for a couple days but hey, at the end of the day shes your mum...shes gonna love you no matter what happens...just take a deep breath sit her down and tell her.

after all you cant hide it for ever..

good luck x

Answer 7

Your not the first girl and wont be the last,tell your mum shes the 1 that can help you.xxxgood luck x*x

Answer 8

well shes gonna know sometime because of a bump or something.

so you should just tell her.

or someone you love.

she might be angry when you tell her but then she should be fine with it and help you.

Answer 9

well you should have thought about that before you got pregnant...Now its time to face up to your responsibilities!!  

Answer 10

oh hunni

i know u will be scared but just take a deep breath and go for it u will feel so much better she will need to find out sometime she might be disappointed just give her a bit of time on her own to get her head round it. u need to keep stress free & healthy so do it sooner rather than later

gd luck hunni x  

Answer 11

heya im 17 and 33 weeks pregnant i no what its like having to tell ur mum it hard but got to be done if u want to talk email me [e-mail] x

Answer 12

You know she'll find out eventually, and I don't think she will hate you. She may be shocked perhaps, but I think she will try to understand.

Answer 13

Be honest with your mom, she won't hate you. Things are gonna be tough for you for awhile, I can't say it's going to be easy, but the best thing you can do right now is clear the air and start planning for the future.

P.S It's okay to be scared. Good luck.

Answer 14

Hi. Your Mum wont hate you. She will be shocked but im sure she will talk through your options and help you decided what is best for you.

Take a deep breath and wait til shes sat down and tell her. If you think it would help have a friend with you. Good luck with whatever you decide to do x

Answer 15

i was 17 when i had my little boy and it has brought me closer to my mum if anything. telling her was total scary but she was supportive and helped me loads. it is hard work but it is so rewarding my little boy is 6 now and i am pregnant again. i would not change a thing. congratulation you and please talk to her asap.  

Answer 16

Never she might very upset to start with but then she will be there for you all the way dont you worry.I hope it all works out for you take care n congrats on the pregnancy x x

Answer 17

Its best to tell her as soon as you can, sit down with her when there is just the 2 of you,explain that u need to chat and that your sorry but u don't want to upset her or cause her to feel disappointed in you, she might get really upset but its best to be honest straight from the start

Answer 18

Well im not gonan throw hate at you because my cuzin got pregnant at 15 had baby at 16, you should tell her since she had one she can help you dont be afraid she cant hate you..Dont worry babes

Answer 19

I was pregnant at 16 as well, it was the scariest thing i ever did telling my family but they were all very supportive and i was very surprised by their reaction.  i now have a lovely 18 year old daughter who is also my best friend although i have told her i do not want to become a grandmother until i am at least 50 lol.  its not the end of the world but also don't let having a baby stop you from doing what you want in life, i have gone to uni at the age of 30 and am now a nurse something i always wanted to do.  good luck all the best

Answer 20

Dont think she will hate you,she is your mother, she may just be a bit disappointed, but its better to tell her then letting her find out through another way.

Answer 21

the last thing you should worry about is if she will hate you or not.

just take a deep breath and tell her. i bet you anything, she probably suspects you are anyways. if not, you still need to tell her the news.  depending on how your mom reacts to certain things, she might get really upset, but that dosnt mean she hates you, its just she is worried what and how you will be able to take care of a child.  if she is the type of mom who will help you get through this, then just repspect what she has to say.. most importantly and keep this in mind, that whatever you choose to do, its your body, your baby, and your choice.

my prayers go out to you and the little one.

Answer 22

Kerry, your mother could never hate you! The first thing you should do is tell her. She will get angry and upset but she will be there for you to help and advice. I know how you feel - I'd hate to tell my parents that i'd be pregnant but sooner or later you have to gather up the courage to do so.

Good luck x

Answer 23

been there done that, i was 16 when i fell with my first.. my mum told me to get rid and have an abortion with each of my children. she really wasnt very supportive ... she has little to do with us but that's her choice.. its not as bad as it seems.. i think more than anything she was dissapointed in me..

its a big thing to have a baby at 16 i know i had the biggest shock of my life.. but my partner stuck by me.. and we are expecting number 4..

i have been lucky and had a good support network.. but not all mum's are like mine!!

you need to tell your mum sweetie.. or go to your doctor.. and talk to him/her first.

you need to tell someone hun dont leave it..

i hope you make the best descion that is right for you.. there is help and support out there for you, you dont have to do it alone!!

best of luck x

Answer 24

I was afraid to tell my mom, but she found out from someone else. And that hurt her even more. You should go ahead and tell her so nobody else will. Im sure she'll be a little upset and/or disappointed but she'll get over it and if she loves you, Im sure she would try to get you some help. You really need your mom at a time like this. My mom got over it, and she is happy. Things happen for a reason, dont feel bad because your young and pregnant. Im 17 and im pregnant, i know plenty of girls who had kids my age AND YOUNGER THAN ME. Trust me youre not the only 16 year old that is pregnant. So i think that you should just sit her down and be honest. Just apologize and ask for help.

Answer 25

no mother should hate her daughter for getting pregnant. she may be shocked at first but she'll get over it and help you out. you'll need an adults help because pregnancy is a hard thing, you'll need allot of support and care, who better for that than your mum.

Answer 26

i would just tell her. she may just be disspointed but wont  hate you. you got to tell casue you need to make an appt. with a ob.  to make sure that that baby is healthy  

Answer 27

She's going to find out sometime.

Just tell her, I'm sure she'll give you loads of support.

Answer 28

You have to tell her sooner or later, your mum will probably find out by seeing the bump growing without telling her, I am sure she will be go mad and disapointed its just shocking for her due to your age. I am sure she will be support to you once she is calm down

Answer 29

She might hate what you have done but I doubt whether she will hate you.

You have to tell her.  You dont have an option.  You need her right now.

But can I just say, as a mother, what on earth were you doing to fall pregnant when there is so much readily available birth control on the market.  Think of what this is going to mean to your life.  

Go and tell your mother and the sooner the better.

Answer 30

well you should tell if you plan on keeping the baby because you'll be due in a few months you wont be able to hide your tummy

Answer 31

well unless you get an abortion its gonna get pretttty obvious that you are pregnant eventually.  You cant say "I'm eating too much" all the time, and how are you gonna explain when a friggin baby pops out?