About 2 weekends ago me and my boyfriend of 7 months went camping with his family and few friends. He drank all weekend and became a mean drunk. We ended up fighting and making up all weekend and on the day we were to leave and go back home, he got drunk (of course). Me being the worry type I tried to stop him from leaving when we got in a huge fight, he left me with the tent and everything else to clean up. Later that night he apologized and we made up, but we were still on ruff terms. We've been fighting on and off and I hate it, so we get into another horrible fight and break up. The day after I decided to take a pregnancy test, just to see, I mean I haven't had my period all summer so it started to scare me. It came out positive. Me and my boyfriend have had plenty of talks of what I would do, and I always said I'd get an abortion, but now looking at it that's alot easier said that done. He's demanding I get an abortion and I don't know what i want to do. He thinks I'm not listening to him, but I am. Everything he's saying about how we have no money saved up, we cant even have a relationship, we're too young (he's 21), and that our child is gonna have nothing and be poor. I think the same things, and I know I'm gonna be missing out on so much, all my friends are going to college and parties while I sit at home and be pregnant. I didnt plan getting pregnant and thats another thing that my boyfriend thinks because his brothers girlfriend got pregnant and lied and now his brothers trapped. I guess what my question is, is what do I do? I know this baby didnt do anything to me or him, so why should I kill it? Its not the babys fault, and because I've seen the ultrasound and heard the heartbeat, I'm attached. But my boyfriend hates me and says if I have an abortion things will be better and we'll be back together. But if I dont, he wants nothing to do with me or the baby.
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