I'm 18, and my mom is constantly calling me fat. I weigh 132 pounds at 5'4 but I'm also a size 36D. She is?

Question

always making me feel horrible about myself, is my body really not normal?

Answer 1

omg you are totally not fat. you just have a large chest and thats something to be happy about.. your mom is just jealous..

Answer 2

Hi.

Your mom may have some personal issues she is taking out on you, people can be like that.

The best thing is just to look at averages. Check out this link:

http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/healthyw...

I don´t think there is anything wrong with your weight, you just have to let the words of your mother go in one ear and out the other!

Take care!

Answer 3

Your weight is within normal range.  Not to overstep; but, your b*****s could be a source of orthopedic problems in the cervical and shoulder regions at some point in the distant future.  What really bothers me is why your mom wants to make you feel bad.   It is natural to resent constant criticism about any topic.  I feel like you are not "fighting fire with fire."   Meaning that you are expressing a lot anger back at  your mom.  That really is the best approach.  All the anger in your mom is related to something other than her daughter.   She seems to be turning to someone over whom she can exercise control. I hope you will remain kind in your behavior toward your mom.  It would be the easiest reaction for you to become angry.  It feels like you are taking the high road.  Patience and persistence will help you through this stage with your mom.   Good luck.

Answer 4

I think you should talk to your mom. There's no way your mother should be bringing you down like that. I have a friend who is exactly like you in weight, height and bra size and I never think of her as overweight ever. You probably have some curves, which is all right. As long as you have some exercise in your life and remain active, you'll be fine. Your body is totally normal.

Answer 5

You sound hot to me.  Photos?