I'm 18 and really confused at this moment in time.help?

Question

so i'm 18 right and a virgin who wants to wait until marriage to have s*x, but lately it feels like i've got this surge and this longing to want to have s*x but i don't even think i'm ready for that yet and i'm so confused. any advices?

Answer 1

when your a teenager your s*x drive goes into over time, so struggling though this time is gunna be tough,

dont worry though! it should die down when you hit 20 :)

and dont worry if you end up having s*x before marriage.

s*x plays an extreamly important part in your relationship with your partner, and can intensify it tenfold. It can also help you determine whether you WANT to marry them.

but i respect your beliefs and think your really strong going through with this!

good luck :)

Answer 2

im 19. i lost my v when i was 17 and ima tell you, i dont regret losing it before marriage cause you have to experience things, say you waited till you married some one, you have s*x, its fun at first but its always the same, you have no idea what else is out there, all kind of pleasures that will never be known to you. i've been round the block, i've been through a lot, and anyone that says you can have a good relationship with out s*x is a lie. s*x can completely change you're opinion on some you might have thought that you knew. and not waiting also led me to the person i care for the most in my life. you have to enjoy life, you are still young, open up your mind, not everything is as black and white as people make it seem. tttrrruuusssttt meee. i'm not telling you to rush into s*x, be smart and only when you know that you're ready. hope i helped...

Answer 3

you should just wait till you find the love of your life. and make sure you dont have s*x because your boyfriends keep asking for it  

Answer 4

That surge will mean you are horny.

Really, you are doing the right thing so as long as you can cope, leave the s*x.