I'm 18 and want to move out within the next year or two, but I don't want to leave my family behind either?

Question

I want to move out as soon as possible. I have everything I could want, but I see my friends all moving out and going on their own adventures around the world, whether it be college, work or traveling. Everyone seems to be doing something but me, and I feel unfulfilled like I'm lacking something. Yet, I don't want to move out because I love my grandmother and I don't want her to be alone. I'm really conflicted, because I love my family but I want to do things for myself and experience life. What should I do? Is it normal for me to be feeling guilty?

Answer 1

Well you are getting older,

im 17 and i just moved out in march.

Id recommend getting a place not too far from your grandmother, and keep in touch

Answer 2

Hi, I know how you feel. First off, are you financially able to move out? I think your family won't mind u moving out as long as they know you'll be able to do so by yourself. Also think if its something YOU want to do. Not something you want to do because everyone else is doing it. Something I noticed is that some people who have moved out at an early age seem to be moving in and out of places, switching room mates or etc. It's normal to feel guilt, because that means you care deeply for your family. But just see if u can afford it-the apartment, the bills: gas bill, electric bill, and rent. Also the expense of food and new furniture....cooking applicances, also internet bill and cable bill. It's a lot to think about.

I sugguest also talking to your grams about it and seeing how she feels . I bet she won't steer you in the wrong direction.

Answer 3

well we all have to move out and on with our lives sometime... you can't just keep waiting or trying to decide what to do because if you keep doing that it will be to late time goes by really fast so don't wait if you see your chance take it..