I'm 21 & want my s*x life back!?

Question

Hi, i'm 21 and my gf is 19 we have been together 5 years and love each other very much. about 2 years ago she became pregnant, it wasn't planned and at the time time were considering our options unfortunately she miscarried and needed a minor operation "down there" since then she has become very selfconsiouc about how i see her, no oral s*x (either way) doesn't like s*x in the light, always wants to be under the duvet when we do have s*x and its pretty much always missionary. I know it's selfish as she ddidn'task for any of it but i want things back how they were when we were adventurous, ANY advice is appreciated.

Answer 1

Its normal. I had a baby and I am stripped like a tiger. I don't like my boyfriend touching my stomach or look at it. It affects the love we make b/c he wants the light on and no shirt. Its sumthing I will never get over. Try to suggest dimming the lights or wearing sumthing s**y, to cover up! Just keep telling her you love her the way she is. iT MAY NOT SEEM TO BE HELPING,  it really does help! Good Luck  

Answer 2

well duh tell her you love her no matter what it looks like down there and that you think shes beautiful anyways!!!