I'm 24 and have never spoken to my sperm donor...

Question

I know who he is, he just didn't want me. He gave my mom money to have an abortion and luckily she did not. He is a Doctor and lives 5 hours from me. I sent him a letter in the 9th grade and never got a response. I sent him another letter 2 months ago. Last night he called and left a message on my voicemail and said he would call back today after 4:00. My question is....... What do I say? I am scared to even answer the phone if he really calls back? What if he tells me to never contact him again?

Answer 1

Hello Sweetie,

I know this must hard for you because you veiw him as your childs father. But you said he was a sperm donor... if he donated his sperm then how could he make you get an abortion. Also sperm donors have the chocie if they want to be in the childs life or not. And they r not obligated to pay child surrpot.I know this must be hard on you.So when he calls just have a normal conversation with him.Like the othere person said like when ya first meet someone.But it should go just fine.

Best of luck to you,

Annegelica B.

Answer 2

--You should at least get a run down of his family medical history. You need to know if there are some specific hereditary medical issues that could possibly occur.

--Don't expect too much.  Maybe just basic conversations (similar to those when you meet new people).

--Good luck.

Answer 3

you should let him do all the talking and if he does not say anything ask him "why did you call"?

but let him do all the talking

--good luck