I'm 25 and a Virgin is there something wrong with me?

Question

I have not even had a date , a kiss , nothing ,I'm not an Ogre I don't think brown hair , green eyes , average build , nice what gives ?

Answer 1

It is a bit abnormal.  At 25, most people have had experience dating and are starting to formulate opinions on what type of person they would like to see themselves with for the long term.

You might be stunning, but attitude is what really attracts people.  Are you putting yourself out there?  Are you trying to meet people? Trying to talk to people?   Are you too hung up on certain traits or factors?  Sometimes people say they can only date "this type of person....." and they end up limiting their potential dating pool and risk alienating "the one" because based on a first meeting they don't fit your standards.  

Answer 2

I have the same problem....it's not you, it's them. I've been a virgin for 30 years..and the problem was that women didn't know what to think of me, because I was always shy, and quiet. Now that I've opened up, and am willing to share my opinions, and feelings with others..I learned that it wasn't me being unattractive..it was other peoples "assumptions" about me and my fear of s*x were the reasons women didn't "notice" me, in that way. However for you it may just be a case of men being intimidated by you..it actually works the opposite of what you think..the more s**y the woman..the more intimidating, so men who don't feel worthy of you, will never approach you.

Answer 3

you need to be examined by the company doctor that happens to be my twin brother. Seriously,  get yourself out there clubs, groups etc there is a guy for you you just have to be out and about to meet him good luck  

Answer 4

There's nothing wrong with you, your'e blessed. I wish i would've waited.  If people would be honest, i'm sure im not the only one who feels this way. Save yourself for the right mate, you both will appreciate it. Your virginity is a gift from God, so value and respect that, and you will be glad that you made that decision. Your future relationship will be alot more meaningful. You will avoid many heartaches, I pray you take this advice to heart, you will be THANKFUL later.

Answer 5

It might be the way you hold yourself.

Like girls like bad guys for some reason. The ones that play hard to get and have mystery to them.

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