I'm 26 years old do you think me dating a 35 year old woman would be weird ?

Question

I met this woman the other night we had good conversation an I thought she was cute, she gave me her phone number an I'm contemplating whether I should call an ask her out considering she's 9 years older than me

Answer 1

Look at Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore.  If you like her, go for it!  They did.

Answer 2

As long as you're not really 16 and she's not really 25... then go for it!

Once you reach the age 18... people become... people and age matters less. My best friend is 18, her bf is 27.

If you really have a special connection with her, and you think there is a chance for love and a relationship, go for it! :)

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Answer 3

if it feels right then just do it....age is just a number...my bf is 7 years older than me...we get along fine and are getting married!

Answer 4

I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as you are comfortable with it. I have the same problem with younger guys asking me out. The only thing is that I'm not sure I would be comfortable with it because I have a son who is only a few years younger than them. I don't think my son would be comfortable with it. Other than that I would go for it too. So yea if age is the only thing holding you back I think you should call her.

Answer 5

Hey, older women can show u a thing or two, plus they usually know their bodies well enough to tell u what they need/want.  They do expect more from u then younger ones (nice restaurants/respect), so be prepared for that when making ur decision.

Answer 6

Go for it...if you had good conversation that's great!  Think about how many times you get good conversation with someone else in life.  I view a 10 year age difference as interesting.  You guys may have similar things in common but because of the age thing you may have differences that spice things up a bit.      

Answer 7

sleep with her, but don't marry her.

Answer 8

nah age is nothing but a number GO FOR IT!!!

Answer 9

Yeah unless you think it could totally work. I just think that thats too big of an age gap.

Answer 10

The age difference is a bit alarming, but just for one date, why not? Serious relationship- I;'d be cautious. Does she come with alot of extra baggage? Kids? ex husband? But have a fun date, and then see what happens. No harm in that.

Answer 11

i am your age. earlier this year, i started a relationship with a man who was 35. (he totally looked 30).

i really like him, but he was recently divorced and had a child who was 15. at times, i felt like he was trying to father me. that weirded me out to no end.

needless to say, we ended things. if she's never been married she may not have old folks baggage. if you do date her, take it really slow. she may make it bigger than it is---(if she doesnt have kids, she may have a ticking time bomb in her uterus)

Answer 12

Let me answer your question with another question.

Do you care what other people think that much?

If so, I don't believe you could handle it.

Answer 13

yes if you like her go for it !!!

love has no age. age is JUST a number =)

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Answer 14

nope

personality is all that matters

if you enojy there company everything else should'nt matter.

Answer 15

If It doesnt make you feel wierd then go for it. Just call her, talk to her. You may find that she was  what you have been waiting for.  

Answer 16

never weird. Age is just a #  who knows she could be the one. i say call her you have nothing to loose and much to gain.

Answer 17

What does her being older have to do with it? I am 35 and I wish my husband could have good conversations with me!  It's not the age that matters, it's the chemistry and if you are interested in pursuing a relationship, or the start of one, with this woman. It's what goes on between the two of you that counts. I say go for it! Good luck.

Answer 18

nope... I think once you hit 21 the sky is the limit

Answer 19

I dont think age is really a major factor. I look at it as longterm relationship. Wierd idea. If I met a woman that was a million air I wouldnt marry her for her money only friendship, companionship, most importantly soulmate.

Answer 20

F'N big deal. I've always dated or had relationships with guys on average of 7 years younger than me. I get so sick of the double standard on the age thing between men and women. That being it's ok for a man to date even 20 or 25 years younger. But boy when a woman does it oh gosh it's not right.!! I think you'll find that an older woman has alot more to offer anyway. Go for it!

Answer 21

It's obvious she wants one thing...I don't think

it could ever be anything serious like a long

term relationship but who knows.  

Answer 22

no thats normal I was 24 when I was dating a women 32 at the time and she had 5 kids.