I'm 8 months pregnant and now my boyfriend doesn't want to be with me. We've been together for 4 years and we always had a wonderful relationship. Everyone was jealous of us because we got along so well for so many years. We've been living together for 3 years and it was still good but....
The problems started when he lost so much weight. He started to get attention from more girls and it got to his head. Then this girl started pursuing him and she knew about me but she didn't care. She told me she was going to take him away from me.
He didn't do nothing to stop her from calling. I asked him to change his number but NO!
Then after 1 month 1/2 of all the drama I found out I was pregnant. I decided to keep it. He wasn't happy. He said I was trying to trap him (which isn't true). For awhile we were good and got along and I thought he stop talking to her. But the truth was he was hiding it a little better. He was trying to have me and her at the same time. I put up with it over and over and over again thinking it was her ruining my life. But it turns out he started to gain feelings for her too. Everytime I argued about her it made him more mad at me and made him run to her because she would always make him feel better. He would complain about me to her.
He would leave me at home for hours at night while I'm crying hoping he's not with her. He wouldn't pick up the phone and if I was going into labor he wouldn't know because he wouldn't answer for hours.
It got to the point I didn't want to be with him anymore I was going to move out but then he got into a motorcycle accident. I was by his side through the whole thing. I was the one who took care of him. He had road rash all over his body and his shoulder got dislocated. The accident was so bad that if he didn't wear his helmet he would have died. If it wasn't for me his skin would have got infected. So I was treating his wounds and changing the dressings EVERYDAY. I even helped him go use the toilet, take showers, brushed his teeth and feed him. He had a bad arm. He couldn't do anything around the house. I was going to work and taking care of him everyday while I was 6 months pregnant.
But now that he's all healed he starts with the same c**p. I thought the accident made us bond and God did that so I didn't make the mistake and walk out on him. I started to feel like we were going to make it after all.
Then I found out he was talking to her once again. I freak out on him and bursted into tears. I felt like he used me. The whole time he was hurt he made me feel like I was his one and only. That we were going to fix things. That day that I found out about her He told me he thinks we need a break. I felt so STUPID. Like how could he do this to me after all I've done for him.
My whole pregnancy I went to all my appointments alone. I went through everything alone. It's to the point I dont even want him around when I give birth. It's not like he will even pick up his phone when I will call him to let him know when I'm in labor.
I'm so depressed and I know I will get through this, but now that I'm already 8 months pregnant he decides this. It's so hard for me to take all this in all at once. He has been talking to same girl behind my back my whole pregnancy and he blames me being moody all the time that he's not happy with me. He said our relationship isn't the same anymore. I honestly believe he's leaving me for the other girl, but he said that's not it. He needs time alone but when hes not with me he's with her. SO he actually means he needs time away from me.
The only reason I've been moody with him is because when i found out about her I became insecure and didn't trust him.
HELP!!!! PLEASE..
Has anyone else been through this or something similar and got over it fast? I feel like I can't get over him anytime soon.
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