I'm A Leo With A Gemini Guy ?

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Desperate Help Me Please ?

I have been talking to this guy for about 3 weeks. He seemed to be really into me. on my birthday he hung out with me and my friends and last Friday he came over my house and we mellowed out you know we watched some movies, cuddled and kissed and we talked about relationships. He told me that he wanted to work his way up to being my boyfriend and that he wants me but he want us to take it slow. Well Saturday and Sunday we texted each other back and fourth but on Sunday he never texted back to finish telling me what had happened to him earlier that day so I tried calling him and he didn’t pick up then yesterday I texted him twice and he never responded. Well today I saw him talking to some girl and she was touching him ( well she was playing with his hat she took it off his head) I know that he saw me sitting across the room because he looked at me ( or at least I think he did) well my question is what’s going on with him he says he wants me but yet he is off flirting with other girls and not contacting me. What’s going on ?

Answer 1

He moved on.  If he wanted you, he would have responded to you or atleast gave you some attention when you were trying to communicate with him.  Some things are quite obvious.  Denial happens when you dont want to accept the outcome.  You should move on.  Or just be more direct and confront him in person instead of texting and calling him.  When you see him in person just go up to him and ask if he wants to see you again.  Dont be confrontational because that would close the doors between the two of you if there was still something there.  

Then again if you are under the age of 21 most likely neither of you know how to communicate properly and would try to suggest things indirectly, thus adding to your confusion and frustration.  Just avoid him and find a different guy because you dont need this stress anyways.  If he complains later that you are seeing someone then you should know the situation is just plain dysfunctional and try to look for more decent people in the future.

Answer 2

he was probably just playing you or maybe he likes you allot but likes other girls to and he wants to be with both of you try talking to him and stuff if he ignores you his over you.

Good luck xo