I'm I right for not letting him back in my life.?

Question

I left my boyfriend we first had a fight at my house one day like every other fights i know after a few days we be back together. few days after the fight we was emailing each other talking nicely i miss him and i thought he felt the same. the day of the fight at my house he broke a phone i got him and i had to get back a new phone. i did and i never give him back the new phone i order. after having and activating the new phone those few day i had the phone a lot of girls are calling looking for him, i told him about it and he act like he don't know what i'm talking about. ok next day another girl call saying she his ex and i ask her for how long she told me she date him five months ago and they not together anymore. I was with him for 2 years so that means he was cheating on me(One thing i don't accept in a relationship at all is cheating I don't forgive cheaters) He lied at first acting like the girl is a lier then i three way him with her on the phone then he confess to it not all but some. I found out the future we was planning together he was planning the same with her. i really thought he was the one i brought him around my mother all the times. my hold family know him . Now just because this girl is ok with what happen he think i should be the same . She is ok with what happen because she no longer was his girl, was not with him as long as i was and i found out she like women also she even trying to get with me I'm so disgusted by all this. I thought i was the only one who knows so much about him this girl know alot too and he even did oral s*x with her. even if i give him another chance which i'm not planning on doing. he has a baby mother who i cant stand she always trying to do something for him and all on him like white on rice. I been there for this guy done everything for him. it hurts so bad.

what do you think?

thanks i know i can depend on my yahoo answer for help

love yall

10 points best answer

Answer 1

It's gonna hurt no matter what....that rollercoaster he puts you on...And, if he was cheating, he should have been upfront with you about wanting to see other people.

If you took him back, it would hurt....if you leave him, it's gonna hurt. Try and think of all the bad stuff he did, cry it out now and again, and the pain starts to go away.

You did the right thing...these men call us the "boo" their "girl" but they just cannot seem to be honest with us and be upfront.

Hang in there...he will still try and contact you...stay strong!!!

Answer 2

You have made the right choice to dump this guy and not let him back into your life because if you do, it will make you crazy trying to hang on to him because he has already proved himself to be player and may even have deviant sexual tendancies if his ex-girlfriend is an indicator.

Change, even for the better, is always hard.  It isn't fair and it hurts to be betrayed but get angry at him, not beat yourself up and get depressed thinking it is something you have done, something you could have done or something you should have seen and didn't.

Some people, and not just guys, it is also girls, will never be satisified in a real loving relationship and no matter how much love you give them it will never fill the void they have inside themselves; they will always sneak around and cheat on you with another preson or several different partners to bolster their self-esteem or make them feel superior by being able to juggle several relationships at once.   They are sociopaths and although they are deceptively charming, it isn't about wanting a relationship with you or caring about, it is about getting what they want because they want it at that moment.  They may even intentionally pick fights with you because in their mind you are "broke up" and that moment and whatever they do is not cheating.

Answer 3

you are right he is an *** an he will live the rest of his life wondering about you..

Go a heads girl!!!!!!

Answer 4

You have to be true to yourself.

If you truely beleive in no second chances for cheaters, then you already have your answer.

It sounds to me that he was not in love with you. If he was in love with you, he would not want to be involved with other girls.

It is time to move on with your life and find a man who will treat you the way you want to be treated.

Settle only for what you want, not for what some one else wants.

Answer 5

Hi, yes your right about not letting him in your life again. That was not right the way he treated you at all. You sound like a very sweet person,and you deserve better than that.That was smart how you caught him in the lie as well.Sounds like something I would do. Did anyone ever tell you that you could be good at detective work.I know how bad it feels too be run around on,my husband cheated on me several years ago,I should have told him then too hit the road,but he beg me too give him another chance,and just being weak for a few moments was all it took.I,m still with him,but I told him if he ever even thought about someone else again that would be the last time he ever show me.That was sick how she try too get with you. She must be some piece of work,if you know what I mean.To be safe I would go see a doctor a make sure he did not give you some sort of a disease,after sleeping with her,just too be on the safe side. After this if I were you,I think I would,just hold off a while and wait till someone good came alone,but the way people are today,that,s a hard order too fill. My advice would be,too check people out better in the future,before you start dating them,sad it has come down too this but that is the way the world is now a days. Good Luck and God Bless You,I really hope everything works out for you from now on.

Answer 6

LOOK HIS A PLAYER N A LOOSER,,U CAN FIND SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO WILL LOVE ONLY U,,IF U GET RID OF THIS LOOSER N START DATING OTHER GUYS,,THIS GUY WILL NEVER B TRUE TO NO GIRL,,,SO DO YOPURSELF A FAVOR N GET OUT THERE AND FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE,,WHO WILLL LOVE ONLY U,,AND RESPECT YOU,,,,PEACE