I'm Wicca and I need some sort of protection when I go outside its embarrassing read on?

Question

I'm Wicca and well for some reason I attract the most biggest Arguments with people Only when I'm with my mother why is this?

I need some sort of protection because its embarrassing someone over reacting to me when i haven't even done anything drastic to them.

Why is this?

Answer 1

irrational fear of the unknown

Answer 2

You could try shielding yourself, there's an interesting article on shields and how to create them on this site : www.occultclub.mirrorz.com you can program your shield to try and mitigate whatever is causing people to over react.

You also need to focus on being aware of what you say and do, sometimes we say things that don't seem big to us but that get misinterpreted by someone else. Being aware of yourself means you can spot when you've said something innocently that has provoked someone. It will also help to be aware of other people, learning to read people can be very helpful in understanding why they act in such an over the top way.

If it's only with your mother then perhaps she's giving out, for lack of a better term, bad vibes. You could try some kind of cleansing ritual, burning white sage is usually very good for this. This site has quite a lot of useful material so have a look to see if there's anything of use to you: http://www.ladyoftheearth.com/listing-pa... That site also has pleanty of protection spells and rituals, so have a look.

Answer 3

Because people are stupid. They think its out of norm for someone to be a Wicca, I Gav been asking myself for years why people are like that and i still have not found the answer. Just be yourself is really all you can do and stick up for what you believe in!

Answer 4

You could get a crystal for emotional protection from people. And to just calm you down when you do get into situations like these. Just carry it around with you or make it into a piece of jewelry. Here are some i recommend:

Agate, Blue Lace - Blue is the colour of peace and calm. The colour of blue lace agate is where it derives its metaphysical properties. This stone calms its owner, allowing you to release tension and stress. . Good for people who are sensitive to other’s emotions. Calms violence in people.

Alexandrite: Alexandrite is a centering stone. Use this stone for stress or in other situations requiring you to be calm. This stone will allow you to become centered and balanced.

Hope this helps,

Blessed Be

xAJx

Answer 5

hope it helps

Answer 6

OH dear - been there <zen hug> no fun.

From personal experiences I can suggest that most people attracted to Pagan paths are "black sheep" to start off with. I've noticed that they are also mostly strong willed individuals who (unfortunately) attract arguments like this.

No answer as such - but you're not alone.

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Answer 7

I have a similar problem. When I spend time with my mum, it is emotionally draining, and my tolerance levels seem to go out the window. Rather than taking it out on my mother, or walking away, I over-react to people who are rude, pushy, etc.

The only thing I can suggest is meditation to help increase your patience levels.

Answer 8

I'm sorry but the fact is, it takes two to argue so if you don't want to row with folk don't row with them

Answer 9

Not sure if I am getting the meaning of your question. If its other people you are arguing with and only if you are telling them you are Wicca then simply don't tell them or bring the subject up in any way. May be you really want to shock them or be ridiculed most people who are not of any of the Pagan belief paths are only to ready to rubbish us but we in our turn must not leave ourselves open to this verbal attack so really there is nothing to be gained by telling anyone of your chosen path. The best protection for you is don't leave yourself open to attack.

Answer 10

Hi, when I was being bullied when I was younger mum used to tell me to put myself in a bubble. Place a bubble round you and I should sheild you. As a wiccan you proberly no I mean an invisable one but it helped me and I am not bullied anymore.

Or imagine there is a mirror in front of you facing them so what ever they say to you goes back at them.

Hope this helps and good luck.

Answer 11

I agree with the above poster. Arguements take two. Hold yourself above it.

Answer 12

Hi, sounds to me like it is an over protective attitude toward your mum! maybe you should start by looking at your relationship with her! As for protection have you tried casting a circle and putting a protection charm on an item that you keep with you at all times? It can be a very basic charm, I tend to use salt, incense and coloured candles... obviously in a certain combination. Feel free to email me for more info.  Do you belong to a coven? If so get them to assist you, power in numbers etc.

Answer 13

Maybe being around your mother puts you in a bad mood? There are no real speifics here so I can't really help you much. But if it only seems to happen around your mother, maybe there is some level of resentment or something going on. I get that sometimes. Everytime my mums in mmy room  get really touchy. Anyway I wouldn't dive into the spells right away. try resolving any issues first and making sure its not you racting badly to other people.

If you really want a spell try looking up something in here

http://magic-spells-and-potions.com/modu...

Good luck and Blessed Be

Answer 14

The magic word you are looking for is "Sorry" - I'm being serious!

Alternatively carry or wear something orange, it doesn't have to be visible and can actually be more powerful if it is not. Make sure it is something you can feel e.g. something in your pocket...

Good luck