I'm a 14 (about to be 15) years boy who hates it when I see love why?

Question

As I grew up ever since I was picked by girls . I never hated them but I hated what teenagers. They'd fall in love it sickens me to see it. People should try to be stronger. But my problem is that I fell in love. I liked her a lot but I knew from my feature and past I wasn't having her. It's funny you want something you never get but when try to forget it. It never leaves. Am I confused? Do I want to be loved? I never don't to want to fall for s*x really I want to adopt a son. But I can't stop thinking of her face. When I listen to music (no word or any thing love in it) it only make me think of her. I swore that I'd live alone because I need no obstacles. I need freedom not boredom. Please how do I cure love sickness? Truth is love is for the weak minded!

I'm serious It's a matter of time. I want to be free fro my illness.

Answer 1

you're are probably afraid that she will dump you someday.

maybe you should talk to her even if it is hard to do.

Answer 2

With no offense meant at all, you may still be in some stage of your own evolution that hasn't gotten past the point of pulling pig tails, or poking at girls to tease?

  None of us mature at the same rate, and your stress level is driven largely, perhaps, by assumptions,,,and certainly might relate to your previous 14 years and situations. Hopefully you'll live another 80 years and be lifted up and beaten down, dozens of times.

  You are wrong however, in so many things you say. I'm not at all weak minded, but I have known and still know the essence of LOVING another. There is an issue you may hold to however,,,That being how YOU define LOVE. Certainly a love of SELF, might seem selfish, ego centered, in many contexts, but it essentially creates a situation of caring about US, can spill over, onto others.

   To consider the sense an illness, is sad. I hope I don't read about you one day, in some tabloid, as your issues are transfered to the general population.

   In a very clinical sense, YOU may not have been surrounded by loving caring parents, family, friends, hence not afforded the opportunity to see, feel, know what it's like in the experience?

   No sin in being ASEXUAL, but in that same sentence you state, "Adopt a Son". To me that has multiple meaning. SON might mean a male you can transfer your NOW feelings to? A male who you'd feel more comfortable raising and mentoring, in some relating, since you are male. Someone you may even NOT have to soften attitudes with? BUT,,, to adopt shows LOVE, hopefully, or you better DROP the thought, as it will only warp and damage an already abandoned child, no matter the gender.

   Curiously I wonder how you define STRENGTH, and that love makes one weak???

   I'd ramble for hours, but as an adult, with vast experiences, I'm already bored. I wish you well on whatever paths you choose.

Just my 2 "Scents"

Doc Wolf

Answer 3

your 14 stop making things dramatic

Answer 4

Learn how to spell first. The cause would be jealousy. You're 15, she's a girl. Life isn't over. You hate love because you can't get any. That is all.

Answer 5

...i think i kn0w whatur trying t0 say....

..y0u know what i think ur inlove with s0meone,like when u close ur eyes ur whatever u d0,..ur like thinking of her or like her face just p0o-up of your mind...

...like me..i hate t0 admit it..but on the first time..i was like..likeyou....

...but every time i see him,my heart beat fast..and a was like trying t0 hide fr0m him...

..but i want t0 feel the beat inside...

..i the end i can't keep it anym0re..

...but i kn0w he can't be mine..

...

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y0u know what..l0ve is n0t jus f0r weakminded..

..it's f0r every0ne t0 feel..i mean y0ur n0t a r0bot,ur a human being...

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..s0, i suggest that u tell her what u feel and see what will happen next,...

..well i guess htis might help,and g0odluck=)

Answer 6

hey ur story is same as mine even i had the same feelings for a  boy i saw him to be everywhere but never got the guts to go and talk to him and tell him everything but a day came when he came upto me and prposed me,....

the happiest day of a girls life now we r togedr past 2 yrs so i mean that you should go to her and tell her about all this and leave the rest on  her but i am d**n sure that even she maybe having the same feels for u

no one can run from love sickness

neither can u

goooooooodluck guy bydway i am only 13

Answer 7

i believe that you should start loving a new single girl and ask her out... you can do so much more with your girlfriend than a girl who you love but doesn't really love you