I'm a Cancer and im falling for a Capricorn?

Question

What are some things I should do and not do to a Capricorn?

And how can I help him open up to me more?

:] I love him <3

Hes very smart and romantic when he wants to, he tends to be unemotional sometimes which really p1sses me off but its all good :]

So, any suggestions??

Answer 1

&quot;Superstition ain&#039;t the way&quot;,Stevie Wonder.

Don&#039;t let Zodiac signs control your love life.

Answer 2

Yes, you are right, you already attract.  I am a Capricorn and I FEEL emotional; I have emotions, but I don&#039;t tend to let them out.  This is hard for me sometimes, but it&#039;s just the way I&#039;ve always been.  Because I don&#039;t look like I&#039;ve got something going on on the outside, I often don&#039;t look like I need to talk about things.  Moreover, when my guy says something like &quot;How&#039;s it going?&quot; it&#039;s not specific enough for me to open up emotionally.  Capricorns do a tremendous amount of inner thinking/processing, it feels personal.  It&#039;s not that I don&#039;t want to talk about things, it&#039;s that it honestly doesn&#039;t always occur to me.  My advice is be a bit of a digger.  When he lets you in on things, follow up with specific questions.  Then try to avoid inserting your emotions into the pie, rather, be a supportive listener,  For me, it&#039;s hard enough to verbalize emotives and then it gets really hard/confusing when what I say brings up stuff for the other.  Again, strive to be strong and supportive, yet soft they way you naturally are as a Cancer.  When he sees that when he shares you can &quot;take it&quot; (strong, supportive), he&#039;ll learn how to open up more.  This whole process will take time (a LOT of time possibly), and it&#039;s VERY important that you remain patient.  You can&#039;t push a Cappi emotionally, it will only backfire.  

Another good aside for you to note, you are Cancer, the  nurturer, you move out to others; your opposite, the Cap is the SELF preserver, he moves inward.  While of course we are all more expansive, it&#039;s helpful to remember our basic natures so that when we are asking one another to expand, we do so with patience and compassion.

i hope this helps, GL

Answer 3

Cass, you&#039;re gonna fall really hard! I think you are over thinking the situation, you just have to be patient, he will let you in when he feels secure...and not a minute sooner! Capricorns can be very moody so don&#039;t take his actions personally. Just give him some time, he&#039;ll come around. We are very loyal people so don&#039;t think that something is wrong just because he shuts down! Take it from me my hubby is Capricorn and so am I ! Believe me I know!

Answer 4

Lol. I am a capricorn. =)

Honestly he&#039;ll open up when he feels secure, and really trusts you (not saying that he doesn&#039;t trust you or something). Me and my dad are both capricorns, we just don&#039;t say everything that is on our minds. we solve problems internally, then execute them outwardly. It&#039;s just the nature of us.

Mainly, just don&#039;t push him to open up and tell you everything, because then he&#039;ll recoil and probably leave you. =/

Patience wins overall here.

Answer 5

I will just let you know from experiance with a capricorn

they arent very open when it comes to there feelings

just letting you know that warning

and they are very INSECURE (the one i was with)

always wanted attention  and wanted me to cater to him all the time

its not about the sign its there personality thats the way i see it

i am a cancer as well and we are nuturing, caring, sensative, and yet when we are hurt we do go and crawl into our shell .

ill just leave you with this ...

Capricorn&#039;s

You are a cold, cruel, petty minded slave driver with unsuspected yet unquenchable ambition and an addiction to tightfisted penny-pinching. You are mean, miserly, cold-hearted, self-opinionated, petty, negative, unforgiving and pessimistic. You seem ultra-respectable and old-at-heart on the outside while claiming to be insecure. You have the stamina and relentlessness to push people until they give in and follow your way. You hate to be teased, embarrassed or made to look undignified. You&#039;d do absolutely anything to preserve your social status. You&#039;d also prefer to keep your ruthless, pathological ambition under wraps.

The formal, conventional pinstripes and stiff manner are all a front to cover your mischievous lechery and anarchic goings-on. It&#039;s possible you make deals with the devil. You are extremely strong-willed, stern and stifling. You&#039;re like a machine. Your goal in life is to maintain order, propriety and respectability.

You avoid direct physical violence, preferring purges and show trials instead. You crack down hard on deviant thought, and action taken in defense of the status quo is always justified.

Your s*x life is mundane and repetitive. Your typical s*x session is just that...typical. It&#039;s rare for you to venture out beyond your boundaries and constraints. In fact you&#039;d prefer to be doing other far more important things; however, every once in a while, the inner goat can be glimpsed. You have a notoriously unquenchable lust and randiness that you keep repressed. You don&#039;t dump in a relationship, unless you&#039;ve been betrayed, in which your never-ending revenge is terrible. Most of the time, the object of your affection never knows they&#039;ve caught your eye. You despise flirting and never say the L-word unless you have to.

You are not a party-goer. You don&#039;t waste time on having fun. You&#039;ve given up on friends because they don&#039;t appreciate your help. You do understand the need for a social ladder. Since you crave status and respectability, you will cultivate useful acquaintances, even shady characters that shouldn&#039;t be trusted or liked. You approve of marriage because it is financially sensible. What&#039;s love got to do with it?

You impress your boss by arriving early and leaving late. Others in the office make fun of you, but you get back at them by trampling over them, using their ideas and making yourself look better to the people in charge. Your goal at work is power, not glory. You want to be the decision maker and executive so you can make the office miserable for the people who laughed at you. Your home is only open to business contacts. Friends are not invited and are only allowed inside if they are respectable looking.

Answer 6

A: Thank you for pointing out that, if you don&#039;t believe in astrology, then you SHOULD NOT BE HERE.

B: Honestly, good luck.  You two are zodiacal opposites, so you will have a hard time getting him to change, and vice versa.

C: Except the differences.  Capricorns can  be emotional when they feel comfortable with the person.  If they know that you will always be there for them through good and bad, then they&#039;ll open up to you.

In terms of what NOT to do?

-Lie

-Do things to them and don&#039;t apologize for it

-Be overemotional over stupid things

-Use tears to get what you want

-Cry during arguments (We will lose respect for you FAST)

What TO do

-Be dependable and honest

-Don&#039;t ever tell their business to people

-Don&#039;t allow them to get too much into the dumps (we can be overly serious at times)

-Don&#039;t cheat, because some of us will claim that we&#039;ll forgive you, but we won&#039;t.

Answer 7

ok,in this case,u might wanna forget about &quot;sign compatebiliy&quot;and focus only on what your heart tells u,horoscopes might be wrong in some cases,and u might miss a chance of a lifetime!!

good luck!

x*x

Answer 8

Honestly it doesn&#039;t matter what his zodiac sign is. Just be yourself and things will happen the way they are meant to be. Just don&#039;t push him to hard or he may resent it. Just be open with him and let him see that you trust him and he will eventually open up to you.

Good luck!!!

Answer 9

Well I&#039;m a capricorn (Jan. 5) who&#039;s boyfriend is a Cancer (Jun 28th).

We capricorns open up over time but you can ask too, we&#039;re talkers.

We are very unemotional BUT we&#039;re very caring deep down inside.  We just pick and choose.

Capricorns aren&#039;t as patient for Cancer&#039;s emotions, so please note that he cares for you, just isn&#039;t as patient toward emotions.  Something capricorns have to work on.  

Do not say what a capricorn cannot do, and if you need to, explain.  We need legit explanation.  

Found this part on google!

These opposite signs have much to learn from one another in a relationship. The Cancer woman struggles with the authority and compression she feels from the Capricorn man. His grip is tight.

The Capricorn man fears if he lets go she’ll weaken him by forcing him to connect to his own emotions. They have much to gain from this love match if they’re willing to take a chance.

Sexually the Cancer woman surrenders to the control of the Capricorn man in bed easily and with great pleasure, contrary to outside the bedroom. The Capricorn man delights in his Cancer woman’s softness. s*x takes the edge off.