I'm a Muslim male that is in love with a Hindu Female!!?

Question

I really love this girl. I have never cared for anyone as much as I care for her. We respect each other and each other's religion a lot. But the problem for me is that my family will never accept her. They believe that we should only be married into our own faith but I don't think I can love anyone as much as I love her. Yes, I can love another girl, but she is just too wonderful and precious to me. I have been with her for four years and I don't want to leave her but college and my family is separating us. What should I do? My mom will NEVER understand how I feel for her because she just looks towards the future of our kids and doesn't want to be embarrassed that her kid married a hindu girl.

And I don't want her to accept Islam if she will only do it for me. I want her to do it for Allah and because she loves the religion, but she will not accept Islam. So yeah, I love this hindu girl. I want to marry her. I don't know what to do!!

Answer 1

go for it  guy if you love her just marry and move away .

Answer 2

My cousin, who is Hindu also fell for a Muslim man, and although my family never REALLY accepted her decision (Which, for the record I disagree with 100%) she changed religions and became a devout Muslim to please his family.

Since I'm not a Hindu, or Muslim I guess I have a harder time understanding the depths of their religious rules and regulations, however I think that love is far more important than religion. Or, if not more important I think you can find a way to compromise.

** Her immediate family was the most upset, the rest of her distant family were very accepting.

I think that is a HUGE negative aspect to the Muslim and Hindu religions, they have VERY LITTLE breathing room.

Furthermore, I understand that your families acceptance is important to you, but sometimes you have to make decisions for yourself!

Answer 3

Hello,

Are you living in India? If the news releases or remotely accurate you are playing with explosives here. I'd recommend you both pack up and move to an area where there is a lot of toleration for all religions like Western Europe or North America.

Cheers,

Michael Kelly

Answer 4

In Islam, if a Muslim man dies, he will be joined by his wife and children in Paradise if they were Muslims.

If you think about it carefully, this alone is sufficient.

My idea of love is the one that will exist forever, not only in this world.

Answer 5

I know that complex issues are at stake here, but unfortunately I am a simple man!

You love her, she loves you. In this world where finally we are mixing races and religions someone has to stand up and be counted as to what is really important in life. It is possible that with insistance dedication and perseverance we can change things so people in your position in 10 years time will be able to mix in love and marriage and religion and culture will be celebrated and no longer be barriers to peace.

And before I am told I do not understand the nature of religion and relationships as I am from the liberal West, aloow me a story. When i was a young amn i dated a beautiful girl, who was also kind sweet and loving, I loved her and she loved me. She was Irish Catholic and I was (and still am) English Protestant. Because we were both shovelled into different churches on a sunday her brothers took it upon themselves to give me the hiding of my life as a warning to stay away from their sister. She was heartbroken and angry, as who do you love? boyfriend or family, she was angry that they had acted this way "on her behalf" and we chose to continue the relationship. Obviously hurting me wasn't going to stop the relationship so they thoughtthat if they battered my younger brother I might think again. This time I did and like a coward gave into them and ended the relationship. I kick myself daily as she ended uop amrrying a suitable man who got her pregnant at 19 and made a career out of battering her senseless. Now there is less of a divide between the tow religions, there is still work to do, but things are better. If the love of two people is to transendecultural barriers then sadly their will be apin and sacrifice and loss, but think of a future when a religion will no longer be a reason to hate but a door to love and we can all celebrate our differences our faiths and our cultures in a sociaty that will be envied arouind the world and eventually imitated.