I'm a boring and dry person to talk to with no confidence!!?

Question

I currently have a set of friends who are extremely huge chatterboxes and talking about everything and anything is too ordinary. Yet, I am the reverse, so they fully take no notice of me in our group if I have nothing to contribute to the discussion. If I ever do have the nerve to say something, it often doesn’t please them.

It’s official that I am a boring and dry person to talk to. I don’t think I can carry a conversation to anybody because of them.

Answer 1

Focus - it is all to do with focus. Focus on strengths, not weaknesses. Positivity, not negativity. Google a short piece called Desiderata and read it.

You might also consider that you are maturing much faster than your peers, or that your peers are not the friends you thought they were.

Time for new interests & people I think.

With very best wishes for now and your future. UK

Answer 2

Get new friends. It obvious you have nothing in comon with them if you can't find anything to talk about. Be with people that share you hobbies, that way you'll always be able to talk about something! I doubt your boring and dry - your probably just not intrested in what they have to say because they are so boring :]

good luck!