I'm a christian and lately i have been so angry...?

Question

not at anything in particular. just mad all the time. i find myself just being ugly to people. my husband, which i feel terrible about because he is so supportive. and my kids too. and bless their heart they surely don;t deserve my rudeness. i am afraid that i may be slipping into some kind of rut. i am usually the one who lifts people up. i know how big my God is. so what in the world id going on with me? ugh.

it is even getting harder to pray. its like i know if i would just break down and pray God would handle it, but i just can't seem to pray anymore. this has cam eon kinda all of the sudden.

any advice would be great. please and thank you.

and please no rude comments. I'm not sure i could handle them at this point.

be blessed in Jesus name.

Answer 1

Maybe the devil is trying to keep you from being close with God.

Here's a sugestion:MAKE yourself pray. MAKE yourself go to Church.

It'll make you feel better.

(I didn't want to go to Church today, but I had my grandma there to make me. And I actually joined my old church again. I felt so good when I came home. In church, the Holy Ghost filled me, and I cried so much my eyes stung. but it was worth it)

Answer 2

your anger is a sign of something

lack of patience maybe, or some thing that bothers you.

You can learn to handle anger.

I have suffered from anger.

God may be using it to teach you some thing.

Pray to God specifically about your anger even if it is hard to.

Try to put yourself in an otherss shoes and think how you would want to be treated.  would you want to have some one yelling at you?

Just some suggestions

Answer 3

When you have a migraine there are many different causes for it. These include caffeine, chocolate, stress, drugs(not saying you would) and a head injury(not likely). Also, if you experienced/experience any visual symptoms such as temporary blindness or blurred vision you have a serious problem and need to go see a neurologist.

Answer 4

That happened to me too. Is their something in your life that has affected your walk with the lord, and your holding on to it and not giving it to Christ?

Ask the Lord to help you search your heart.

Answer 5

Could you be suffering from bipolar disorder or depression? Please consider talking with a doctor or therapist. These things happen to good people every day and it's no one's fault. I wish you the very best.

Answer 6

Our physical bodies undergo changes all through life. This may have nothing to do with the spiritual, but of the physical.

Just a thought.

Answer 7

Seriously, go talk this over with your doctor.  Any sudden change in personality or emotions is usually chemical.  I could make a pretty good guess, but that's where your doctor comes in.

Answer 8

I am not Christian but you sound like you are in depression. You should really go to a doctor. Maybe God wants you to go to a doctor and check yourself up? God did give doctors to the world for a reason, right? Maybe God made me type this up? I'm not being funny.  

Answer 9

I understand where you are coming from especially in the times we live today. What it is probably numerable. Let me just say, there is a comment you made in the beginning is a start to your answer. You said "no rude comments".

To start you may feel in the midst of a continuing battle that you've taken on, but with so much going in your personal life you should not try, to fight alone. If you dont have the aid for these at home, may be you ought not be so envolved here (I mean take a break from commenting just read dont take it personal) because this is draining, but as you strengthen return.

You are no good to your family if you can't function to a level they have come to expect. You soud young in spirituall things, whether you are or not, but maybe  you have just gotten active in it. YOur mind is sound, but dont rush yourself. There are those of us here who have been punding what we have come to believe whether right or wrong for a long time publicly or not, stand back and observe.

Love your energy, blessing you in God, family first,

Answer 10

Being a Christian doesn't insure that we don't go through these kinds of emotions. My mother was a very good Christian, taught Sunday school and Bible study. She died in 2000 from breast cancer.  I have gone round and round with anger because of this. But I still have to come to the conclusion that God knows what is best because He sees all, we don't.  But getting back to the emotion, we are human and  we will experience all of them.  He doesn't promise the Christian an easy road. But He does promise to be with us along the way. Even when we don't feel like He is there, sometimes we get too caught up with everyday things and we might not pray enough or read the Word. It helps me to just read the Bible, especially if I'm going through a hard time.  I have also talked to a person that I can trust will give me good sound advice about things too.  Maybe you can go to your pastor and talk to him/her about your feelings.

Answer 11

You've been hurt - you might not remember it - but obviously something exists in your mind which makes you angry.  You then apply this anger to people or situations around you.  

The religion is a problem sometimes - it keeps you from actually looking at the truth of your life.  Dump it for a while and take a look at what's real.

Answer 12

So you are a Christian well hello my sister in Christ...Smile...Find out where this stress is coming from go out for a day and relax talk with God. I see that you say you know how big God is then surly you know that he can hold you know, he can help you through this, for he loves you so much more than this whole world could ever love you.

The migraines are definitely because you are so busy putting on your own stress and finding reason to be angry with nothing.

He is always there waiting he is saying come to me..."whosoever will let them come so its up to you sweetie

You feel as though you can not pray...but God is your friend talk to him like one. Prayer is communication with God you don't have to make it long or proper just honest for he knows your heart.

Your family have heard you say that you are a Christian and now they see this...then why would they become a Christian you are now an example therefore you have to be careful in what you do my dear.

Matthew 4:19: A love for CHRIST produces love for mankind...

As for the headaches relax calm down get happy do something fun with your family...make a day for you then your family...and make everyday a day with GOD...

SEVEN DAYS without GOD makes one WEAK!!!...Smile and Please apologize to your family they love you so arguments does nothing to say you love them

Enjoy This it may relax you....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqK1lp-WP...

Love,

Ablebaby...your sister in Christ

Answer 13

I felt the same way. I felt like I was treating people differently...in a bad way. I started to lash out at people more...I started to leave the Bible and not pray....the best thing to do is honestly sit down and ask God for help...He's the only one that can help u. Ask Him to bring u back to that place of worship. Tell Him that u desire to be in His presence.  

Answer 14

See a doctor about treatment for depression.  

Answer 15

You have found that you have rats in the cellar of your soul?

You may need some quite "self-time."

A raging river cannot reflect a clear image until it is still. God cannot enter your heart until you are still.

So put a little time each day for yourself. Put a little quite time aside each day for God.

All the best.

God love you.

Answer 16

our christian walk is not all mountain top experiences. there some valleys also.? is there some sin your hiding? the holy spirit will make you miserable  untill your right with the lord.thats his job. is health, menopause, depression etc....read proverbs 3;5-6 and remember your faith is based on jesus christ and NOT on how you feel at the time.

Answer 17

i would say your just depressed. It happens to everyone, maybe for no reason. But, even though you have a hard time praying to God, just do it! He is the only perfect being and these problems you have are so small to him. So just pray with all your heart! Tell him exactly what's on your mind! Just say something like.."Lord, i have been feeling so depressed and mean to everyone lately for no reason. It makes me mad knowing that i'm being so mean to the people who care about me. But Lord, i know you can help me. You are the only one who is perfect and just. Please take this depression which the devil has brought into me, and take it out of me so i can go back to lifting people up instead of bringing them down. I love you Lord.." or something like that. Just  say waht you feel, and once you do you'll feel so relieved taht you put your worry onto God, he WILL carry you through this. No problem is too big for God. You jsut have to trust that he will help you and he will, my dear friend. Right now, you just need to have patience and God will help you in His time and no one else's.

I'll pray for you, you are not alone in this. :D

Answer 18

I am a ****** athiest but I can give you this advice which will help:

Whatch the movie "Click" by adam sandler. It will help you to appreciate your family.

Answer 19

Take a step back, identify what is bothering you. Fix them, and relax.