I'm a clueless middle schooler... help?

Question

This sounds soooo pathetic and it really is, but everyone in middle school knows stuff that i'm clueless about. You know what i'm talkign about... what a bj really is, the bases... that kind of stuff. Can you explain????? NOOOOO PIX!!!!

Answer 1

It doesn't matter. You'll never get one!!

Answer 2

well a bj is a ******** where the girl will put her mouth over the guys d**k and suck it. and thats like a hand job (hj) where she uses her hand instead of her mouth.

Answer 3

I understand your situation, you see I was very sheltered as a kid, raised in a gated community, never given any true facts about s*x until I was 13.

The reality is, these kids at your school, know very little if anything about s*x. They simply give the impression of knowledge only to make themselves seem more mature.

Don't feel like your alone or stupid, because your not, in fact your smarter for asking rather than pretending to know everything, which in my view is worse than not having a clue.

Here are the answer to your simple questions at the end (though there is more to s*x than just clever phrases, I recommend finding more information).

B.J- ******** or Oral s*x on Male, meaning the woman or male puts his or her mouth on the p***s.

Bases:

1st-Kissing

2nd-Fondling or Goping

3rd- Oral s*x, Fingering, Hand Job

4th- s*x

Answer 4

Okay a BJ is a ********.. basically its when a girl or guy sucks a mans d**k

Answer 5

Straight up, this is the kind of topic that needs to be handled interactively, meaning you need to be able to ask questions.  Nobody can type out a short response that is going to take care of all your questions.

Additionally, you should be asking somebody you trust.  It seems overwhelming and intimidating to ask, but it's just as hard to be the one explaining everything.  If mom and dad aren't available, see about a youth pastor or someone else you trust who is older and willing to discuss this with you.  I'd also suggest it be out somewhere instead of in a closed office or something like that.  I have these conversations all the time with students in a church setting, and I encourage the guys to talk with mom and dad first, or I make sure they know I'm having the conversation with their kid.

Look, you're not clueless, just innocent.  And even after you get all your facts, remember that it's impossible to remove values from this aspect of your life.  Make your decisions early and stick with them.

Answer 6

wow. you dont need to know.

bj: bungee jumper

Answer 7

There are many books you can get at your local library to explain s*x education. You should talk to a parent about s*x if you are confused and need guidance.  I know this is an embarrassing subject.  If you are uncomfortable talking to a parent, maybe an older sibling or friend who knows the answers?  But being well informed will help you make smart choices as you grow older.

Answer 8

Go away troll.