I'm a college student; do you think it's wrong of me to be upset b/c kids have a bigger bra size than me

Question

I feel sad and inferior.

Answer 1

im only 14 but i get the same c**p. my 10 yr  old cuz is bigger than me but i dont stress. im not going to be like some other girls in my grade that sit there and l**k their own b***s even though their flat.

Answer 2

Be happy with what you have :-)!

The size of your b*****s does NOT define who you are, and although much of what we hear these days is about larger b*****s, there are many men out there that actually prefer a more proportionate chest because they don't have to worry about the b*****s 'sagging', becoming too 'flabby' and non-muscular.

I was a 'late bloomer' - and then one day woke up and was like "what in the heck are these huge things?" - - - they are not all that so many women and men think they're cracked up to be - and they can actually be uncomfortable.

Enjoy what you have been blessed with, for if you were to have larger b*****s by God's master plan, you would :-).

There is NOTHING wrong with you - and the only person that can make you feel inferior, is yourself - - smile and walk proud young lady!

Answer 3

That's fine. You can buy more cute shirts. =)

Answer 4

Dude. Stop worrying. I'm 23 and a 32A and I'm happy. I suggest you concern yourself with your studies.

Answer 5

Why would you be upset? There is always going to be someone who has something better than you, that is life. People develop differently, some with bigger b*****s. I have small b*****s and I came to accept that many years ago, I'm 21 now. No need to feel sad or inferior. You need to work on your self-esteem, maybe see a therapist. Good luck!

Answer 6

The Bra size does not make the woman, though we're taught that it does. It really is a waste of energy to spend time lamenting the fact that you're not the bustiest woman out there. However, one can understand how it would be upsetting. If you really can't stand your body the way it is, save up and get a breast augmentation. Or, learn to love yourself the way you are. Either way, you don't have to prove anything to anyone. Just be happy with yourself.

Answer 7

College student. Exactly. You are NOT a teenager so stop thinking like they do.

Reasons to celebrate small:

1. bralessness is freedom.

2. no future old lady sag to the waist

3. painless when running, jumping in sports

4. no under breast chafing sweat or rash in the heat

5. more concentrated sensitivity for loving touches

Answer 8

your freaking fine...small b***s are just as good as big ones and really big ones are just gross....b is perfect

Answer 9

it sucks to have big b***s because you cant fit into any shirts because your b***s wont fit! even if its an ex-L!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

From the male perspective, you are fine. Never get breast implants. It is by far the biggest sign that a girl is very insecure.

Answer 11

I'm younger than you, im 14 and I feel the same way. Freakin 9 and 11 year olds are C's...I'm only an A...I got taller and so now I look smaller than I used to >_<

Answer 12

You aren't that small.  I'm an A and I'm 25.  I admit that sometimes it bothers me to be so small, but it really isn't something I worry too much about or dwell on.  I still have plenty of guys who like me.  

Also, look at the plus side.  You don't have to worry about them being annoying and bouncing up and down while you work out, and they probably won't get gross and saggy as you age.  Plus, if you ever get pregnant, you will at least have one thing to look forward to, bigger b***s.

One more thing, the average bra size for a women used to be a B in the 70's.  Now, it is a C, but this is only because of an increase in breast augmentation surgeries and due to the fact that most people are overweight or obese.  Therefore, you are really pretty average.  Just be thankful that you aren't fat and that you aren't so insecure as to waste money on surgery.

Answer 13

Don't feel sad about your bra size!  You have so many advantages that those with bigger b*****s don't have!  You can wear speghetti strap tank tops, halter tops and tube tops and look really cute in them!  Bigger chested girls can't!  You don't have to wear a bra if you don't want to, and lets face it, they suck.  You will always have those "perky" b***s that men love, big b***s sag!  And health wise you have the best end of the deal, no back pain, and less likely to develop breast cancer!  So, I say enjoy them!  It sounds like you are well proportioned for your body.  32/34 is normal for a B cup.  If you we like a 44 with a B then I could understand.  So, I say, flaunt what you got.  And be proud about your b*****s!  

Try going bra-less a few times out in public, then those girls with bigger b***s will wish they looked like you!

Good luck!  And enjoy your perky-ness!