I'm a freshman in high school and I want a girlfriend.?

Question

I am a freshman now and I just went to a new school where I don't know anyone. i really like a lot of the girls in my class but I don't even know their names so it's really hard for me to even talk to them. I am sort of insecure so I'm not really good with the whole stand up thing. I had a girlfriend in middleschool but that was because my friend hooked us up. This high school I don't know anyone so I don't even have any friends. PLZZ!!! Help I am so confused?!!?!!?

Answer 1

chill out, just dont think about it too much.. just go over to her and talk about class work.. then once u talk to her bout classwork you'll gain a friendship and then talk about other things besides class, and before u know it ur friends and you can ask her out easily. but dont get to "FRIENDISH" cuz she might end up seein u as just a friend and nothin more

Answer 2

just get to know them. befriend them

Answer 3

bro, get over your lame *** self. who gives a **** about high ******* school, lets get to the real world

Answer 4

Firstly, get to know the girls names, by asking them for help in class. Girls dont bite. Just go up to them and introduce yourself politely.

Be confident, not too up yourself, and just relax, dont think about it. Make some guys friends as well. and maybe they will set you up. Perhaps get yourself settled in this school before makin any plans to go out with anyone.

Good luck!

Answer 5

wait till you get some more friends. dont ask a girl out right away. you are honestly not gonna want a girlfriend so early in the year. you will get one though dont worry. its your first year of highschool so you dont have to stress too much. just get to know some of the people in your class. both guys and girls. and once you get to know the girls names then start talking to them. just be nice, friendly, cute, and sweet. and you will be supirsed how fast the girls come. haha. but just be yourself and nothing else. good luck!

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Answer 6

im sorry but the word insecure kinda threew me off

like ur some kind of a nerd

but uhh for sure 1 thing is that every high school has some kind of roll call thing well pay attention to the girl that u like in any particular class

and when she says here or raises her hand for her name

theres ur first chance, u know her name woooowwwww

or the easy way is introduce urself and ask her what her name is

second part

u dont have friends? go make some friends

u dont even have to like them

i mean cmon way betr haveing friends then being a loner

and work your way up the popularity scale

join football

too rough?

join basketball

you stink?

join baseball

you still stink?

join soccer, u just gota kick a ball i mean cmon

well course theres more techniques, but in general, just kick or catch the ball

and thats another way to get friends

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Answer 7

okay your a freshman and your new so try to make friends first before trying to grab a girl. Make new friends let people get used to you because i girl might be more willing to give you a chance if they know you than you are a stranger. If your so insecure try to find something to boost your self-esteem. like a new haircut or something. Or you can try small conversations. Like say "hi" or ask for an pencil or help with a class problem. just take it with a step at a time. youll be fine and good luck

Answer 8

You just gotta take a chance and talk to them. Introduce urself, and at lunch ask if u can sit with them and join in the conversation. But the most important thing is to be yourself.

Answer 9

get too kno people

stop bein shy

talk to girls

talk to ure class mates

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Answer 10

i know how u feel, its opposite for me im a freshman girl, i learnedthat when ur new its super hard to talk to anyone, but when u see or find someone u rly like its even harder. try talking to her, just wait till she is alone. its rly embarrasing to talk to someone when they r in a click surrounded by ppl, but wait till she is alone and just talk. can be about anything, but straight up and hopefully she would respect u for that, i would. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 11

Did you know that relationships are totally not worth it at your age? They don't last long, because as you're young, you're also desperate. Don't say that you're not. If you weren't desperate, you wouldn't have gone onto yahoo answers for dating advice.

   Concentrate on school for a little bit, and if a girl makes herself available, then I'd say go for it. You'll have more of a chance of lasting longer if you wait for someone to go around. Right now you're just standing at the front of the buffet line and seeing what looks good. There's too many choices. Wait a bit to see what you might like for longer than a second.

Answer 12

First thing you need to do is make yourself stand out to them. Interact with them everyday, but make sure to do it in a way that they will know you are interested in a relationship.