I'm a girl with brother problems!?

Question

i love my brother but i think hetakes me for granted if i give him a hug he pulls me back and he never talks to me when i talk to him. any advice i dont want him hating me all my life

Answer 1

i don't quite understand what your saying but i think i can kinda help. well i think you should tell your brother that you love him and

tell him that since were a family and were always going to be family i think we should get along better and you shouldn't take me for granted.

Answer 2

just give him some space

Answer 3

Is he older than you? He might think that it is not "cool" to be seen with his younger sister. Appearance is everything in a teenage boys life. If he is not older than you, then try talking to him. Ask him if he likes you and tell him to be honest. If he says no ask him why. Offer to work on what he tells you. And let him know you love him.

Answer 4

My best friend is 5 yrs apart from her brother and I remember they didn't get along back in the days. Now he's 18, my best friend and him are like twins.  

Answer 5

How old is your bro? Mine was a jerk to me until he moved out at 20. Now we're best friends! He doesn't hate you, I'm sure, but brothers get annoyed with sisters, that happens in every family. If you think he's being really rude, just act mature about it and tell him that you are offended by his behavior.

Answer 6

All in all, I think jpn360 has the best advice. Fulk Yu's entry is just plain nonsensical.

Answer 7

I have a little sister, so I know how your brother feels. We really do love you, but sometimes, being older, we like to have more personal space. It doesn't mean we hate you though! If anything, you coming to us makes us feel trustworthy and important. Just give him some space every once in a while :)  

Answer 8

Poor thing...

What I can say to you is coming from an older siblings standpoint. Your brother does not hate you now; he may be a little mean or distant at times but he does not HATE you. He loves you with all of his heart.

You have to understand that #1 sometimes, as older siblings, we hate the world and everybody in it. I went through that phase and I hated when my little sisters were around. Now, they are my best friends and I think about them before I think about myself.

All you have to do is keep showing him you love him and the rest will fall into play.

Answer 9

younger or older?

live your own life sometimes it's not meant for you to be close

(my mom had 1 sibling,a brother,felt same as you:he moved to new

york and she hardly saw him anymore:it could be your energies just

don't match never give up see in your mind the two of you getting along

and having fun but do the work mentally/not physically

good luck

Answer 10

I'm like that with my little sister...only because she gets on my nerves and she doesn't give me space to BREATHE. Now with my little brother, I'll give him all the hugs he wants, because he doesn't bug me all the time, and he doesn't follow me around like a little puppy. Your brother doesn't hate you, trust me. He loves you. He only wants his space.

Hope I helped!  ;]

Answer 11

he's your brother.....all brothers do that even mine and he doesnt hate u thats just the way brothers are

Answer 12

Ahh yes...the siblings. Perhaps your brother is in need of a life changing experience where he realizes that he actually loves and cares about you, only he takes you for granted now, but it is inevitable he will one day appreciate your existence and see you for who you really are...Goodbye.

Answer 13

Classic brother.....you should be glad you have a normal one.....they are like that, and it will get worse, so just don't feel bad. Do nothing, he will grow up out of it.

You have more interesting stuff to do.

Eventually he will need you....you will see.

Answer 14

Haha, no worries, that's just the way brothers are.  My brother did that all the time and then the first week of college he calls home and says that he missed me and loved me and I was like awww =)