I'm a high school student...and I am so Insecure because ___________?

Question

Mine is people tell me that I am beautiful and I can't seem to believe it unless a guy tells me I am... i want to think I am beautiful but all around me there are guys and girls holding hand and laughing and I don't have that I have never had a boyfriend before and every time I get close to a boy I get extremely unselfconscious, and we eventually drift apart ... What am I doing wrong?

Answer 1

You are not believing in yourself. Change your attitude, give yourself more credit and value. Start believing in yourself, and you will see the difference!

Answer 2

I feel the same way sumtymes

Answer 3

you should know, you never have no a   boy friend,it's not meaning you have a bad apppearance,maybe your guy will come at the corner,bebieve yourself.

Answer 4

Hun, there's no problem with not having a bf in hs.  you're fine.  when you meet the right guy, i'm sure you'll get over being nervous or whatever.

Answer 5

First just relax and breath.  Sounds like me in high school.

Second focus right now on the fact that your just human and having the same experiences all human beings have.

You may want to get involved with a social group or a club on campus that you can make friends with.  

Do you have a teacher you may want to confide in or a school counselor.  There may be some self help books that you may want to get about dating and socializing.  

Right now however believe me you need to focus on grades and getting prepared for college.  It is impt now because life is tuff without an education.  Boys will come.

Whatever you do don't give your virtue and values away just to be popular for a short time.

Talk with your mom if you can or an older sister, aunt, female friend's mom etc.



Hope this helps

LFT

Answer 6

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Answer 7

....ur bootiful n u no it

          get over urself

Answer 8

I am in the exact same situation.

People tell me I'm beautiful all the time but sometimes I have a hard time believing it when I look in the mirror.

Everyone sees themselves differently than how other people see them.

You just have to learn to stop caring about what other people think of you.

It's hard, but you'll be a lot happier and you'll be more confortable around people.