I'm a man, i love like a man, and i treat women the way a man should treat a woman..?

Question

why should i stop?

feminst, who are you to try to take away what men have been doing for years?

Answer 1

As long as you are respectful, which you should be to either gender.... just keep on doing and believing what you do.

I think that the word feminist has gotten pretty skewed and yes there are some radical feminist out there.

I believe in equality but still want to be treated like a woman. I like having doors opened for me but by the same token if I am at the door first and a man is entering... I hold the door for him if he is going to barge his way in and not let me out first..... it is common courtesy on my part.

I want to make as much money as a man if I am doing the exact same work he is.

Courtesy towards others is different from feminism and equality.

Answer 2

Well I am old fashioned. I love to cook and clean for my man and assist him in his dreams, even when I don't really understand them or agree.

It would be nice if more men were old fashioned as well.

You shouldn't stop, but don't be surprised if finding misses right is hard. Many women think that men like you are normal and feel like something isn't right. Or other things they put in their minds to not go for the good guy.

As far as these women that mock me or say I make it hard for 'real' women, or that catering to a good man is stupid and I am stupid for doing it, are the stupid ones to me. THEY make it hard for me. I am not a %50 %50 type person. If things go the way they are supposed to, the man will always put in more work. The labor. %60/40% maybe. I am not taking away from hard working women. I go to school, am trying to start my own business and I care for my children. That is a lot of hard work in itself. But my husband still does more. He works hard and physical work. He cares for me when i am pregnant and he runs the errands. He protects his family. And works very hard for us. he works 2 jobs and would get another one. He opens doors, he pulls out chairs (when the restaraunt person doesn't beat him to it lol). I love what he does and yes, it took me a sec to realize he was real but I love it. I don't want those things taken away. So many men now don't do these things because they have been forced to look at us as equal and not the fairer s*x. I don't want to be a man....let me remain the fairer s*x.

Answer 3

Don't stop. You aren't doing anything wrong. Women and men are different, and I think those differences should be emphasized and celebrated rather than ignored. I don't want to be treated like I'm one of the guys (no offense to the guys! LOL) ...I'm not a guy. I'm a woman.

Answer 4

I went on a date once with this guy who insisted on opening every door even if it meant he had to run a marathon to get to it before me... I hated that.  If your there and open the door or pull the seat out for me fine but if I get there first could you just let it go.  I am capable of getting out of a car, opening a door and sitting down on my own if no man is there.

Answer 5

yeah i know. evil hoes. i love women like you too. i love her soooooo much, she should wipe my as*, clean the house, pleasure me till the sun rises, and cook me breakfast everyday.

all in the name of love.



edit: ohhhh my bad. still, we need new questions. not gonna happen though, too many reporters. is it you?

Answer 6

You are assuming

1) that women should be treated some certain way (an opinion)

2) that feminists all think alike ( a fallicy)

3) that there are only two alternatives to this quandry.

How about you ask a woman?  You will get different answers from different women.  Most people would encourage you to be with women who appreciate you for you and your feelings, not with women who would think a different way.

Be respectful of other people's feelings, please!

Answer 7

on behalf of the women..who appreciate having doors held opened for them, who thinks it is sweet when a man offers to help a woman carry her things and are just all around sweet natured...

I thank you..

Answer 8

What way is that? You say "the way a man should treat a woman" then give NO relevant details.

Whether you should stop turns entirely on what you mean by "should treat" -- if you mean pound women into the pavement, then, yes, you should stop. If you mean treat as human beings, and otherwise treat based on their qualities AS human beings (treat the intelligent women AS intelligent women, etc.) then, no, you shouldn't stop.

If you mean treat women as slaves; yes, you should stop. If you mean sexually harassing them, yes, you should stop (just because it's how many men have treated women for years, does NOT make it right).

So, why did you pretend to ask a question, yet leave out all the information we need to answer it?

What is it you're accusing feminists of trying to take away? The "right" to murder, rape, beat, grope, and order women around? I want to take them away because they are wrong.

It goes back to the old saw "Your freedom to wave your first ends at my face."

You can do as you want -- as long as what you want doesn't deprive others of their rights.

Answer 9

And your point is?

You sound a bit defensive - perhaps you better go and check that your b*ll*cks are in the right place!