I'm a married woman falling in love with a married man. what should I do?

Question

i've tried so many times to stop the relationship but that man says that he loves me and can't leave me alone. he really insists on the relationship.

Answer 1

get divorced and go for whay you really want.........life is short!

Answer 2

Forget about this other guy and concentrate on your marriage and husband instead and DONT forget the vow you took to "forsake all others" thats what you should do.

Answer 3

try being a un married woman, falling out of love wit a married man.u should b ashame of ur self.

Answer 4

Sorry, I don't buy that!  "i've tried to stop the relationship but he doesn't leave me alone".  It takes 2 to tango and if you keep caving into him, You've basically "trained" him to persist until you do give in.... which makes you as responsible so don't use a lame excuse like that!.  The fact that everyone is losing in this scenario....you, him, both spouses plus however many children  apparently isn't enough at this stage to keep you apart so you'll probably just continue until you get caught and the sh*t hits the fan.....and boy will it splatter and fly when that happens!  Will you end up with him if that happens?  I'm willing to bet you won't!......and even if you did, if you cheated with each other, you will cheat on each other!

Say NO and mean NO!.......and if you can't or won't, rest assured, you will bet caught!

Answer 5

we're on the same boat my dear.... & we're having an affair for 6 mos already, long distance affair though... we tried many times to end up the relationship but we always ended up together after days of not talking... we just miss each other too much... maybe the longer our relationship our love deepens... i hope u can figure out what's best for you coz me i am always hurt & suffering for this love, but still holding on coz that's what makes me happy... he's happy & just love me that's all we have.... good luck!!!

Answer 6

Perhaps tell him that if he truly loves you (that is, wants what is best for you) then he has to leave you alone. You are both married and an affair hurts everyone it touches, especially the spouses and children you gave your words to love faithfully.

Love is sometimes a good feeling, but true love is always a choice. Choose to fall out of love with your tempter and dive into love with your husband again.

As far as it is possible cut all contact with this other man.

I will be praying that you do the right thing and find the happiness which only goodness gives.

Answer 7

get in touch wit h a psychologist  available through

outreach.matters @gmail.com

The guidance is free of cost

Answer 8

Don't date him until he leaves his wife. Cheating married men will always say what you want to hear in oreder to get physical with you. Don't get involved with him cos once you do you will become hooked & he might never leave his wife. Believe me he'll find excuse after excuse as to why he is not leaving her. If he does love you, the first step is leaving his wife. You don't want to be responsible for breaking up ba family cos sooner or later Karma will catch up with you...

Answer 9

Tell him to back the **** off.

His vows must've been worth dog c**p.

Answer 10

I would stick it out with your husband.

If that man is going to cheat on his wife with you, what makes you think he wont cheat on your with another woman. Once a cheater always a cheater. If your mariage with your husband isnt going the way you want, try a marriage counsilour.

If the man keeps comming around, CAll the police and file harrassment charges.