I'm depressed and hurt alot about the fact that I was born inept and different from others and will never have a girlfriend, or even get married and have kids (it looks that way anyway. I lost all my friends after high school and throughout college I was a confidence-lacking introvert). Also I don't see how "confidence" and "self-esteem change" is the cure because what can make me confident to talk to people when it is when I talk to people that I feel embarassed and awkward about how I look. I rarely give eye contact due to my problematic social ineptitude and that's just my problem. I'm just inept. And that's what I am, I am what I am and so I've been able to get on with that. In other words, I have been a loner for a long time and I've gotten on, but it's like loosing someone. I lost myself and who I could have been, so therefore it is still tough but one has to move on. So...how can I stop my self-angst when reflecting on everyone else? I will never find Love. I'll never find that special person etc and I'll basically be living alone all my life and have this incredibly dull life 'til I die...how can I cope ppl?
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