I'm a taurus male, with my Moon in Libra, and Mercury and venus in Taurus and my Mars in Aries?

Question

Well before I used to always have feelings for someone and always have somebody who I dedicate myself to and I used to fall so fast and think about marriage fast. But now and its been this way for months and I dont really have in love feelings for anyone where Im crazy about them, and I tend to want to not rush love and I want to wait for a girl who will treat me right, I see and appreciate Pretty women I see, but I dont want to feel a rush of feelings, and I dont fall so fast anymore and I dont go around wanting them to be my girlfriend. Why is this? BTW I love women alot.

Answer 1

you know what, that was exactly me a year ago. I understand what you mean. Lol, i wrote a lot in a journal....

What I did was I focused upon the good aspects. Although it was painful, it was an experience that I'm happy to have had. I like to try a lot of things, and I like to have felt particular feelings. Even heartbreak can be extraordinary to feel. And, well, although I clammed up afterwards, I learnt a lot about myself. And about her? Well, I confronted my feelings to her, and they weren't returned. And... well, I felt better. You see, I had fallen in love with her because she was at the right place at the right time. And, well, personally looking back, if I was in a relationship with her, I'd be very very unhappy. Don't worry about how you feel now. It's a reaction, but don't force it away or anything. Now is a good time for learning more about yourself, and making decisions in who you want to be. Now, around a year later from where I was, I'm concentrating on my future. I want to be secure in myself before I enter any relationship. Whatever you do, don't loose your standards of the romantic experience - I mean, don't search for second-best. And if you're not romantically attracted to the girls you know, well that tells you something - as it is at the moment, they're not the one for you. Your teenage years are a wonderful thing, because you have more time to concentrate on yourself and who you want to be. Once you get into adult-hood, you don't get that much graces.

I wrote, and I really like this expression: Look away your heart, throw away the key.

And then, several months later I wrote: find the key again.

Now is a time for good self-discovery. Take it, and try to get the most out of life. With your head out of the clouds, you can think a bit more objectively, and you'll be able to know what it is you seek more in a relationship. You don't fall for girls very fast, because you don't want flings or meaningless relationships, you seek a girl who has the potential to be a long-term partner, and a very romantic one at that! Your heart is letting you know things, but you need to find the beat. Discover yourself, be content in yourself, and love will be a better experience. Keep your eyes open, don't give out hope. There is somebody for everybody, really! Good luck, and take care.,

a fellow Taurean.