I'm a varsity cheerleader and i don't fit in what should i do??

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Please Answer!!!

Answer 1

This is the bottom line.  You have to be able to look at yourself everyday in the mirror and know that you are a good person.  Remember if you are a good person and you are kind to people.  There is no really good reason for someone not to allow you to fit in.  Therefore, this is how I live my life and it seems to work for me and everyone else I come into contact with.  How I look at things is:  Its not what you think of me, Its what I think of you!  What I mean by that is, I have standards,  I want to hang out with nice and kind people.  I dont want to be around people that make fun of people or judge them and not get to know them.  So you should think of what type of person you are, want to become, and what type of people you would enjoy being around.  Dont short change yourself.

Answer 2

Put out more.  No one likes a prude.

Answer 3

Just talk to people and if they give you an offensive reaction forget about them. It does not matter what they think if you are happy with yourself. Perhaps your problem is you are just insecure and think you do not fit in?

Answer 4

A lot of people don't fit in... now I'm trying to figure out what being a Varsity Cheerleader has anything to do with this... is it that society believes that you should fit in?

Well all I can say is that sometimes we have to change our attitudes a bit in order to fit in. If you really want to like people and people to like you back, then start from the outside in! It's not very orthodox but you should give it a try! It works for me...

First pretend to like people and laugh at their jokes and try to tell yourself how lucky you are to know them... they'll grow on you =]

Answer 5

what dont u fit in? with ur peers? then cheerlead for another school

Answer 6

You don't have to "fit in" with the clique. Just be yourself.

Answer 7

if u dont fit in with the othere girls, and they are constantly yelling at you, chances are, they are just plain out b*****s.....and honestly, if u love the sport, then try to ignore them..... theyll come around hopefully, and if not, think of it this way.... a new year is coming up, and that means new girls on the team!....try and make friends with a few of the girls, and they should get off ur case untill they pick their next victim...just when they start yelling at someone else, dont join in.....and if u dont really like it a whole lot, then try out for a different sport....hop i helped!!!!!! and dont let other ppl bring u down, theyre not  any better than you are, and dont let them thinkthat the can be this year....