I'm a white female (20) and I'm trying to understand my Mexican chico...?

Question

long story short, I've known (worked with daily) This Mexican Guy for a year, WE have flirted extensively. Before I left for school(20hrs away) we said a tearful goodbye, he said he would call at the time... but he hasn't. His family is in Mexico. He hasn't completed his citizenship process yet. He knows fluent English and I'm learning Spanish. We both care for each other deeply. He seems like he wants to date me but he is hesitating. WHY? What (most likely) would his family think about us? What is typical dating like in Mexico?

Answer 1

Get the girl pregnant. Leave. Find a new g/f. Get the girl pregnant. Leave find a new g/f. Cost the gvnt millions of $ in welfare. Lather, rinse, repeat.

I'm allowed to say things like this because I'm mexican.  Born in the u.s. though.  I hate irresponsible "rico suave's" that do that sht.  It gives my race a bad name.

Answer 2

i am mexican.  mexican men have a very, very strong value on family.  this guy may be in love with you, but you are only 20 and white.  he sees tons of potential in you and cannot expect you to make the same commitment that he wants to make to you at this point in your lives.