I'm about to get married but cant stand my photo being taken help!?

Question

right what it is is when i was 4 years old my father started abusing me, when i got to 7 he started taking photo's of me which should never have been taken, i cant go into too much detail because i wouldnt want younger people reading that sort of thing, but anyway now as an adult i hate it when people point a camera at me it really freaks me out, i dont see them i see him and i panick and try to hide my face and stuff, the problem is is 6 weeks today i am getting married and i know i have to have photo's of my big day taken, what am i going to do? how can i over come the horror of having a camera pointing at me? i dont want my wedding day photo's to look a complete disaster i really want our special day to be special in the photo's too, any advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks,

oh yea, my fiance knows my fears about the camera and is trying to help but im still the same!! thanks

Answer 1

Have a glass or 2 of wine before the pictures to calm your nerves. Just remember, you'll have your husband right there by your side to comfort you and get you through. And just keep in mind, that the pictures are a very very small part of the wedding and they'll be done before you know it. Relax enjoy and congrats!

Answer 2

Hire a professional photographer and

A) tell him your situation and tell him/her to stay hidden.  Or, if you are uncomfortable with him/her knowing, then

B) tell the photographer that you want the pictures to be completely candid, natural and non-posed.  A good professional will be able to do this and get gorgeous pictures at the same time.  

As for guests, mention in your invites that cameras prohibited.  If anyone asks, just white lie that you have eyes problems from the flash or something.  No one really needs to know :)

Answer 3

Take youru picture with your vale on or while youre kissing your groom. Just dont looj at the camera