I am south korean. I was put up for adoption as soon as I was born. I know my birth mother cared about me a lot, because she did not just put me in an orphanage. She came up with a birth plan and put me in a nice baby reception home and had the adoption agency, Spence Chapin find adoptive parents for me..
Anyways, I would really like to get in touch with my real family, or atleast my birth mother. My parents are pro- the idea, but I fear that since my korean last name was very popular (Lee) it will be very difficult to locate her, or them.
Has ANYONE ever gotten in touch with their birth parents? If so, how did you do it? what steps did you take to find them?
I'm guessing that you would first contact the adoption agency, right? And would there have to be mutual attempts to contact? like, would both of us have to try find each other before outside parties could help us?
Please help!!! this has been bothering me to no end lately... I'm finally ready to figure out who I am!!!
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