I'm always sad everyday?

Question

no one can love me because i'm a L*****n i'm sad everyday i don't know what i can do i think i'm so unlucky because i want to be a guy but i'll become a woman i'm so sad in my life i feel sadness in my heart i'm always thinking if have someone loves me i think i lose my hope i wish sometimes in my life someone loves me too but i don know if someone loves me:(i'm so unhappy everyday i'm always feeling bad i don't know what can i do? sometimes i'm trying to kill my self because i'm so tired in my life and my life is full of sadness i wish someday someone can love me too

Answer 1

First thing you need to understand are that there are plenty g*y people in this world who are in very loving, fulfilling relationships.  Just because you are a L*****n does not mean that you cannot have a wonderful, happy life and SHARE that life with someone else.  You just need to be more patient as far as finding a happy relationship than someone straight would have to be - you have less people to choose from, after all.

That being said, I feel you should get some counseling.  If you're thinking of killing yourself that's a very serious issue, and you need to seek help immediately.  Find a local counselor and make an appointment.  They can help you resolve these feelings of inadequacy and hurt.  

Good luck.

Answer 2

You sound emo or goth. I think you need to go out into the light of day.

Answer 3

move somewhere that your 'wanted' lifestyle is accepted. You'll feel better & more than likely come into your own.

killing yourself is the coward way out of things, face yourself & put in the effort to make yourself happy.

GL

Answer 4

Self-pity accomplishes nothing. Whether you kill yourself or not is solely up to you unfortunately. But if you really want to live life to the fullest, self-confidence and self-esteem are what's needed.

Answer 5

Suicide is never the answer, get counciling, seek some sort of help.

Answer 6

please dont kill yourself its not worth it if they cant accept who you are the dont deserve to be in your company eventually you'll find someone that loves you for you

keep your head up

Answer 7

be urself and enjoy what u have at the time u have it ....

i know this cos i am having probs with my partner and she wont discuss it with me and keeps shutting me out

life is full of wonderful surprises and u will recieve one when u least expect it and it may very well come within

have faith and it will find u

Answer 8

Being a L*****n has nothing to do with it. There are people all over the world that can't find love. And they are not all lesbians. It takes time to find love. Weather you are straight or not. You may being going through a downward slope in your hormonal manifestation period and just need to calm down. Go out to a L*****n bar or find a L*****n website to communicate. Move closer to an area where there are more lesbians. Get active. Don't just sit and pout. You'll never find anyone that way. Besides, I'm sure there are people in your life who love you and would be willing to help you. Get up, get busy. Go! If your still feeling like killing yourself get some help for that, too. Call a suicide hot line or talk to a professional. For real.

Answer 9

i dont have anyone to love, but i have greta friends which stand by me evryday!

Answer 10

You're young. There is so much time to find what you're wanting to find....there's no rush. Be patient. Be calm. Explore yourself and get to know yourself. Having someone love you will not complete you in any way if you don't love yourself first and if you aren't complete on your own first. It's not two halves that come together and make a great love. It's two wholes, uniting, and playing up the best in each other and thus making the faults that we all as humans have seem less.