I'm am bullied.I seriously need advice!!!?

Question

I'm in 7th grade.I'm the most hated girl at my school.The whole school knows about me.I was the new girl at my school because I came in the middle of the year.It seems like my school doesn't like new kids I guess.And rumors about me was started my first day there.And the first five minutes of my school year at my school,this girl asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no and that I'm trying to wait till I'm older.And that girl called me a nerd.NOBODY except one girl likes me.I am bullied verbally and some degree physically.My parents don't know about this and when I told the guidance counselor it got worse.I am always called a snitch because I went to guidance.Also I'm called a snitch because during recess,2 kids were kissing and I told a teacher that I was disgusted..cause the kids had a so called wedding...the teacher already new about the wedding,but didn't know they kissed...I wasn't snitchin...I was only telling her and she went right behind my back and told the principal..if I knew the teacher was going to tell the principal,I would have kept my mouth shut...and the teacher told the kids that I told her..What to I do...I am called every word in the dictionary...its sad..sometimes I cry myself to sleep...and sometimes they hit me....HELP...

Answer 1

I know this might should bad and many may say why did you say that but maybe if you knock the sh it out of them they will stop. but the best way will be to ask the teacher if you could address so of the worse kids and tell them how you feel and that at the end of the day they are not going to change who you are. You are going to forever be told someone don't like you or something in that form but just know who you are and don't let people make or break you. I would just go to school and forget about them. I had lots of friends in high school but i rarely was seen with them i have always been by myself it is my way of living. I move to alaska because it is the farest place from ny where i am from and may people won't come here. i like being by myself and my feeling say good because i just don't care about what people think about me but my husband and children and i forgot my mom. other then that move on just work on you and your education and they will meet their match one day. but really tell your parents too and stop telling on kids it is a little like snitching i am from ny you just don't tell the teachers there. you just mind your business. so maybe just go to school and mind your business.

Answer 2

Transfer to a different school or get homestudy.  

Answer 3

Bullying is horrible and never easy...Please reach out to your parents so that they can help to resolve this issue....

Answer 4

you can either kick their asses or ignore the whole thing. there really isnt any other choice other than telling their parents or transferring. i say kick ***, but it is what you can handle. you need to tell your parents and they can give you some advise good luck  

Answer 5

stand up for yourself call them low life losers who have nothing better to do than pick on people and get meningitis and have fake weddings. they will be so shocked and never mess with you again

Answer 6

First tell your parents.

next leave an anonymous note on the teachers desk when things go on that should not be going on.

Next when you do what is right and people come against you, hold your head up high because  you know what you are doing is RIGHT and they are in the wrong and are mad because they cannot get away with doing wrong.

It will take a while,but sooner or later you WILL win respect of people and also,if they physically harm you,you tell.There is NOTHING WRONG with snitching and you can tell them I said so.

If they had something stolen from them and wanted it back and YOU knew who stole it, they would be BEGGING YOU to snitch then!

Wouldn't they?

If it wasn't for snitchers unsolved mysteries and america;s most wanted would have went down the toilet long ago.Thank GOD for snitchers because the Bible says we are NOT supposed to stand by while evil is being done and say or do nothing.

You hang in there hon.I am proud of you.

However DO tell your parents about the physical bullying and the counselor as well.They CAN getthe  kids expelled for physically putting their hands on you.

Answer 7

6th  +

Is always where drama starts a problem you should have been prepared.

They all of a sudden think their High schoolers or something The best you can do is ignore them Don't start anything back with them.

What they do is wrong but they get mad when you interrupt the plans that they had .  

Don't start rumors back.

so what if you go to the guidance counselor?  

If it helps you then what the heck--?

Dont get them in your head.

Dont even let this bother you its not worth your time trust me..

Its annoying yeaahh  .

But talk to someone you trust about it that won't tell other kids and get the best advice here too .

Do whatever you can i promise once they notice it doesn't bother you they'll give up.

If its getting in your head tell someone your not comfortable with the new school. They prob can help you.

Remember what they say.

Haters make you famous. You're on their mind :)

But i repeat. don't start anything .

DON'T It leads to even more c**p

Answer 8

I was in a position like yours a while ago.What you need to is be a snitch, ignore EVERYTHING they say, when they say something or hurt you tell on them, at recess read a book or stay inside to do something else so your not with them more.Basically you have to have your teachers to be your friends.I hope my experience will help you!

Much hope,

o22_pumpkinpie_22o

Answer 9

I was bullied in 7th grade too, so i decided I would tuff out the year, then for 8th grade, i told everyone I was moving, and  went to an all girls boarding school for a year. best experience of my life. I came back home for 9th, and entered a public high school and ended up becoming friends with most of the people who bullied me. Because it was 9th grade, there were tons of new people, from a bunch of different schools, so it gave me the chance to meet new people, and not be called the new kid. Also, my golden rule; keep your mouth shut! never tattle. As far as dating goes, you made the good choice, my sis started dating in 7th grade, and by 10th she was a mom.  

Answer 10

Stop telling the teachers or any adults. Start standing up for yourself. If somebody wants your attention just to pick on you then ignore them. If they hit you then you automatically should tell a teacher or adult. Become closer with your friend and see if she has any friends that you can become friends with too. Once you have at least three friends and all three of you like each other then you should be fine. And remember, don't tell the teachers or adults anything unless they physically hurt you.

Answer 11

TELL YOUR PARENTS NOW - bullying is not okay and if there is physical violence against you they need to know, and deal with it.

They need to go to the Principal and tell him that if the bullying continues your family will be notifying the Police, and that they are keeping records of the bullying against you and records of when they notified him of the bullying.

He will be forced to deal with it because he does not want the Police involved.

Believe it or not, helping our children is what we do - it is our job as parents to guide our young people and advise them, and if you have a problem you should let your parents know.

First - tell your parents

Second - hold your head high - if you look confident, you are less likely to be picked on

Third - believe that you are not the only kid that the others pick on, so find some of the others and be friendly, I'm sure they would like to meet you

Fourth - know that this will pass, you won't be in school for ever, but remember how this feels and do your best to never make others feel so terrible

Fifth - you are a strong young woman who will do well because you have the courage not to quit!

Answer 12

Live with it.Learn to play by their rules.And don't listen to what the other people answered.Standing up for yourself won't help.It will only make it worse.The best thing I know is to back off.Don't show them they're getting to you.With time, it's not going to be that bad...they're not gonna stop, but it won't be that bad.You'll get used to it.

Answer 13

OMG! Please tell your parents. You have two options...

1. Stand up for yourself and work through it and hope for a brighter day

2. Change school (the 'not-so-easy' easy way out)

God bless you, you will be in my prayers tonight.

Answer 14

I am a kid that will be sarting school soon and same grade to and what I would do is do not do anything to them they will just tell on you and you will get blame on it.I am sorry your guidance person won't help at all.I hope things get better soon.

AND TELL YOUR PARENTS.