I'm an evil person. I lied, betrayed, and hurt my close friends to the point they all have ditched?

Question

and physically attacked me. I keep apologizing, but we get angry and yell at each other.

I feel severely crummy and foolish inside. I'm aware of myself, but I don't know what to do to prove these people wrong.

I am able to compromise and make things work. Does this still make me an evil person if I want to let go all grudges and make things work? How do I earn trust again? What are some good tips to be a better person to these people I betrayed?

Answer 1

You have a problem that only good ol' Mr Time can fix.  Your actions won't be easily forgotten and it probably won't help to suck too much or be the proverbial 'crawly b.u.m l****r' that sometimes scores us some points.  Maybe you'll just have to try and be nice to them when or if you get the chance and not push your friends to accept you back too quickly.

Feeling crummy and foolish makes me think you have some remorse so it should just be a matter of patience and with luck you'll be back in the fold again soon.

If you can't wait that long, simply make new friends with people that don't know what you've done and start afresh.  You're not that evil and we all make mistakes.  You've learnt a valuable lesson no doubt.

Answer 2

no you are not evil. starting today tell yourself i am going to change and change. simple as that.

Answer 3

well the first step is admitting it...well done and i commend you on doing so...

you're not a bad person, although what you did was bad...

how do you earn trust again?

well it depends on youre friends...will they ever be able to trust you again? its up to them, wether they want to or not...

just dont ever lie, betray or hurt them again...im sure youve learnt youre lesson, now all you need to do is take what youve learnt and apply to your everyday life.

Answer 4

you have to take full responsibility for what you did and even kiss @ss a little bit if you really want your friends back that badly

Answer 5

do nice things for them like get them movie gift cards im sorry cards and you and your friends should try to refresh ok if they like stuffed animals get them some

Answer 6

No my friend ur not evil some mistakes in the past done by u makes u evil well u should keeping on going & tell them sorry until they accepet u well say them what ever u think im ur friend well one day they will except u i know it's odd! but just try if they ignore keep on going & tell them sorry every day every time when they met u well they will sure forgive u this is known as Gandhigiri well a person name Gandhi in India is known as the father of the India cause when britishers ruled india he went to them & said in a polite manner plz leave india they slaped hi he gave his sceond check & said once more! well after this the Britishers went away & India got it's freedom it's 61 years old storry but it will help u too cause it helps me too

Answer 7

read about karma an do it for your self...

change starts withen. keep it withen,dont feel the need to talk about it.

take your time,be independendent an by yourself if need be.

observe the world around you, an work out away to walk in, away to talk in it that makes you happy an others around you happy.

take your time