I'm an introvert (INFJ_) female and I find that because I'm not loud or running off at the mouth all the time, new people aren't drawn to me - they think I'm cold and too reserved,
I'm not cold - I'm actually warm hearted, kind and loyal with a dry sense of humour. But the assumptions people make about my demeanour when they first meet me causes them to not bother.
I also feel pressured to entertain people with small talk. How can I become good at charming people with small talk if I'm the sort that likes conversations with substance? What do extroverts talk about if not substantial topics?
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