I'm asian and sometimes I feel....?

Question

that guys from other cultures/ethnicities wouldn't like me/ date me cause I'm asian? Like i've heard a few guys saying that they don't date asians only white girls etc. But the thing is I don't really want to have a boyfriend right now. It kind of makes me self-concious in a way and wish that I wasn't asian- but then i really like the cultural celebrations. I also hate my features i'm mixed asian. How do I deal with this?

Answer 1

Ignore those guys. You'll find a guy who will love you and think you are beautiful. Be confident and proud of who you are.

Answer 2

i was like that when i was like in 5th-7/8th grade. im mixed mexican and filipino so sometimes people stare at me funny. like my filipino uncle doesnt like my mexican mom. or my grandpa's mexican brother looks at me as if i were a wall but then people began to see like a different look that i have and think im really pretty so i stopped caring about race all of a sudden because i thought im being prejudice to myself. and i'm like pro-life i dont care about race at all. thats why i dont like the whole big idea about obama. seriously hes just a person. and he's part white too so people need to get over themselves and look past his natural tan. so from my experience just learn to embrace it. especially since your asain a lot of cool fashion trends look awesome . if you look at all the risque or avant garde stuff they bases it a lot on modern asain culture and fashion it well. so be happy you mixed and different. its fun. i call myself universal because i dont just stick to one blood line :]]]]]

Answer 3

Every guy I know thinks asian girls are hot!

Answer 4

You just keep your head up!

You'll me someone when its the right time for you...Just wait b/c  never kno whts n store 4 2mrw

Answer 5

I'm Samoan/Tongan I would date an Asian

straight up there one of the most prettiest

girls in the world Polynesian men go crazy

over Asians get at me!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

s***w those guys. if they dont like someone for who they are then they dont deserve anyone. real guys give everyone a chance no matter what color, height, weight, ect.

Answer 7

Personally, in my opinion I think Asians are the most beautiful people in the world.

Some guys will judge you on your looks/culture.But let me ask you this,

Would you wanna date an **** who only judges on looks ?

I think not.

Everyone is beautiful,

And as long as you believe in yourself

You'll be ok:)

Answer 8

Mixed Asian?

What are you talking about?  Mixed Asians are like the prettiest people in the world.  I have a friend who's mixed like you, and she's really cute. :]

I think there are pretty girls in every race.  And everyone has their own preferences.  Look at it this way: You like guys of different ethnicities, so why can't the same go for you?  

But I get what you're saying.  Sometimes I feel like total sh*t because of who I am, and I wonder if my life would be better if I were of a different ethnicity but you don't get to choose who you are. You get what you get and you make the best with what you have and sometimes what you have is really the best.  And if guys don't like you because you're Asian, then that's just being racist and you shouldn't even bother.

Chin up.  There are load of guys who like Asian girls.. Some guys I know only go for Asians... Lol.

Answer 9

Ignore the as_sholes some guys prefer Asians you know and some don't care don't worry about what others think its you that needs to love you FIRST than someone else will come along and love you AFTER.

Answer 10

Oh honey forget about those guys... if a guy can't really see past physical features, then its not worth it.

I have that too sometimes, when I wish I was another race, but eventually, you find guys who are more into ethnic girls.. the fact that they're so different lures them a bit..

and you say you don't want a boyfriend, so don't worry about it..

All we can do is just wait and have fun =]

Answer 11

If they don't like you for who you are and they just like dating people for just their looks then chances are they are just a******s. But don't be self concious about your ethnicity. There is nothing to be ashamed of. You should be proud of what you are and if the man likes you for who you are and what you are inside then that is all that matters. I hope everything works out for the best and there is someone out there for you!

Answer 12

Every guy is different.

Answer 13

Hey don't stress about such a thing!  There is somebody for everyone, and if you are not really interested in a boyfriend right now then why worry.  Somebody will come along when you least expect it and you will be swept off your feet. You should never listen to what other people have to say about negative things anyway.  I am sure that you are a beautiful Asian and you should be proud of your culture, even if it is mixed.

Answer 14

Oh I know how you feel I'm asian too and sometimes I also feel that guys from other ethnicities don't like me because I'm asian but I guess I have to deal with it because I can't change the fact that I'm asian and maybe one day the right guy will come along.So I guess all you have to do is be happy with who you are and one day you will meet the right guy.

Answer 15

Don't wait on life or you may wait too long. Mixed Asians are great. Don't you dare feel that way! My son is half English/Scottish and Korean. I am as anglo saxon as you can get, my wife is asian and our son is the best looking, intelligent and outgoing 2 yr old we could ask for. Be outgoing, be talkative, don't be shy and or withdrawn when speaking to an anglican. And remember, adapt to lifestyles and ways in the country you live in. I love my wife and her family. She is a beautiful women. However, if there is one thing I could wish for is that her mother and father when they came here 30 years ago could have learned English, adapted a little more to customs and lifestyles in our country, and be more outgoing with others. Because they did not, they sometimes seem to me to be isolationists. That is why I enjoy taking them to dinner out. And still it is sometimes hard to get my wife out to go and mix and mingle with other friends on a consistant basis. It seems as though I always set up these gatherings and meetings. Why? Because I had to get her away from her isolated lifestyle the same way her friends did the night we first met over 8 years ago and the lifestyle her parents raised her in that she was used to. Get out, mix and mingle, just don't eat kim chee and sushi 5 times a week. Live the fun life that all others who came to the US over 236 years ago did and adapt to society the way it is where you live. I love asian foods and celebrations, but I also love american steaks, french cuisines, italian pasta, mexican foods, the 4th of July, New Years Eve, and just getting out to have a good time the same way others do. You and your family came to the US to begin a new life, now adapt to it in the ways that all of us and our ancestors did over 236 years ago and enjoy it. I may be scottish english anglican but my favorite foods come from Mexico, my favorite sport to play from England, and the lady of my life from Korea. I guess now my little son has it all! Good luck.

Answer 16

I don't judge by color or race.h**l I would date a rainbow...

Answer 17

Who cares about those guys??

Any guy who gives a fig about who a girl is on the inside wouldn't date only girls of certain races.

Don't be self-concious because of your race. Asian features are GORGEOUS and  there are loads of people who would kill to have them.  Embrace your culture. It makes you unique, and it doesn't get any better than that, so don't let anyone tell you otherwise, and don't feel pressured to be cut from the same mold as everyone else. :)

Answer 18

Look at it this way.  There are 7 billion or so people in the world.  There is no WAY anyone could live their life so all 7 billion humans would love them.

People who wouldn't be interested in you for ANY reason just plain don't DESERVE to know you.  They have volunteered to make your life easy by being OBVIOUS jerks you can immediately ignore.  Trust me, they are better than guys who only reveal they are a jerk after you wasted 2 weeks on them.

Don't hate your features.  There is no "perfect."  It's not the shape of your nose men of quality care about, it's the shape of your personality.  Don't worr, you're fine.

Answer 19

You don't have to take the words of these guys and treat it lke it's stone. That's their own opinion of the kind of girls that they would want to date, but someone will love you for you.

You don't have to worry about having a boyfriend right now, if you don't want one. Don't live to be a people pleaser while neglecting yourself in the process. Sometimes, you really can't take in what people say about you, but just be glad to be yourself. It's hard to look in the mirror and accept yourself for how you look, but how can anyone love us when we first don't learn to love ourselves.

enjoy your culture and your background. The world isn't made up of only one group, type or class of people, but rather many races, ethnicities, and backgrounds to form- the human race. I know a few mixed people and they are part Indian and part Black, but they still love themselves.

Counteract your dislike of yourself, with something positive about youself. If you want results, you really have to try hard to work on it. for instance, if you don't like being inside all day, counteract your negativity for hating that by, saying some-thing like,"at least I am not being exposed to UV rays."  

There will be a guy that will love you for you, so don't worry about the other guys saying stuff. That's their own opinion, they can't speak for all guys in general.  I hope that I was of some assistance to you sweety, good luck!! =D