I'm at a new school, and could use some advice?

Question

So, I just started at this new school a week ago, and the first day I was there a girl invited me to her birthday party which is tomorrow. She seems really nice, but a little weird, and her friends seem a little odd too, though I haven't seen enough to know for sure. I'm not sure whether I should go or not. It seems like a good way to make friends, but I'm generally painfully shy, and I wouldn't know how to act in a roomful of people I don't know. Any advice?

Answer 1

i would go, you never know, you may have fun. if not act like you did, be kind and even if you dont make best friends you will at least have people you know and that like you. sometimes people judge others until they know the facts, like you, you say you are shy, some may say stuck up. but unless they know you thats not fare. go and have fun and eat a piece of cake for me.  

Answer 2

Believe me, I have been to three different schools. All in different cities. I just talk to them more and more each day. I get to know them better. I ask them questions. I don't get all in their faces though. I just hang out with them more. I tell them secrets. I pick them as partners if your doing that type of activity. I make myself seem really nice and kind. I get really happy and I have fun. But please, don't change how you look or how you act for these people. They are just friends that you probably won't even know in like ten years. Oh, and if your shy, just be yourself. Also, if they don't like you for you, they are not your friends. Please remember that. See, I went through a phase when I was hanging out with the wrong type of people. They were really mean and I changed myself for them. I realized after I changed back into me, I hated those type of people!! So please, Make sure after this party that they like you for you. GOODLUCK!!!!!!!!! (= (=  

Answer 3

be a nice person .

don't let anyone judge you or say anything.

if they have nothing to judge you on .

go to the party;;

you might meet more people.

oh yeah .

don't forget to be yourself.

Answer 4

Well first of all what school do you go to? If you want to go to the party then go but if you don't then just tell her you don't want to go.

Answer 5

yah i kno how u feel except 4 d fact tht im not shy. but anyways..if ur afraid tht ur going 2 b uncomfortable then mayb u shouldnt go but i thnk u should bc it is a way 2 meet new frnds and if u dont want 2 hang out with tht "odd" girl thn u can hang with one of her frnds and if all her frnds r "odd" thn i suggest u leave but there may b 1 straight minded frnd of her there!(: