I'm being myself but im still not making friends?

Question

It seems like as much as i be myself; i gain friends but i end up losing them. If being myself isnt working, wut should i do?

Answer 1

Just be yourself, never change who you are.I'm pretty sure you are a great girl. Some people are just in our lives for a short period of time, while others are here for a lifetime. I know. I've been through it before. People have walked in and out of my life. You'll find true friends one day.

Answer 2

work with what youv got always be yourself but maybe if you keep losing your friends you should think about the way you mayb treating them. dont change your personality but make sure your not being mean to them or anything

Answer 3

Hey, I hope these Bible verses help:

As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. And Saul took him that day and would not let him return to his father's house anymore. Then Jonathan made a covenant with David, because he loved him as his own soul.

1 Samuel 18:1-3 New King James Version

A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Proverbs 18:24 New International Version

Make no friendship with a man given to anger,nor go with a wrathful man,or you will learn his ways and find a snare for yourself.

Proverbs 22:24-25 New American Standard

If you have find honey, eat just enough,

too much of it, and you will vomit.

Seldom set foot in your neighbor's house—

too much of you, and he will hate you.

Proverbs 25:16-17 New International Version

Better is open rebuke

Than love that is concealed.

Faithful are the wounds of a friend,

But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.

Proverbs 27:5-6 New American Standard

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls for he has no one to help him up.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 New King James Version

This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends. You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you.

John 15:12-15 New King James Version Bible

A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

Prov 17:17 New International Version

After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself.

1 Sam 18:1 New International Version

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work:

If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Eccl 4:9-12 New International Version

Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.

Rom 12:15 New King James Version

Faithful are the wounds of a friend,

But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

Prov 27:6 New King James Version

A man that hath friends must show himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

Prov 18:24 New King James Version

Hope I helped! God Bless :)

Just be nice in everything you do with them. And be polite, if they do something mean to you, just say something nice back. Nothing to offend them.

Answer 4

You need to be yourself no matter what! Being a different person only gets you in trouble.

Maybe join like a camp or class to meet people!

Hope this helps!

♥jbfanatic94

Answer 5

then these people weren't your friends to begin with, keep trying and be yourself.

Answer 6

be your self completly b cus if you be some one else you could get too wraped up in that and might loose yourself in the process. so if people dont like you thats their problem and their loss not yours

Answer 7

Ask someone you REALLY trust to tell you if you are doing something that is sabotaging your friendships or bugging people and then adjust somewhat to be a good friend.  That should really help.

Another idea is to try some new things and meet new people and see if you can meet some steady, long lasting friends who are not shallow.

Answer 8

as they say, there's always room for improvement. i guess u need to assess yourself and see what you're doing wrong and improve on that. u can even talk with the friends u lost to see urself through their eyes. maybe they can tell u where and how u lost them as friends. make sure they are good friends though and that they deserve the effort. ;-)

Answer 9

Don't ever not be yourself. If you make friends with someone and they believe you to be someone else they will end up going away anyway when they find out the truth.

Be yourself, but improve yourself in a sincere way. Some great qualities that decent and worthwhile people cherish are honesty and sincerity.

Maybe work on your confidence a bit, join some groups- hobbies etc that you really love, that way you are more likely to meet people who have the same interests as you which is always a good starting point.

Always stay yourself, but grow!

Good Luck- wishing that wonderful and genuine people come your way

Answer 10

Well you pretty much have to be yourself and if they were your real friends they would like you no matter what you do. Friends come and go, but true friends are forever. So obviously if you lose a friend, don't get all stressed about it. You just have to move on because you have to get friends that actually like you for who you are. Everything happens for a reason.

Answer 11

Well just keep on being yourself if you keep losing friends then maybe adjust little things but don't change your hole attitude and if you keep on being yourself the right friend will come along.

Answer 12

change your personality