I'm bisexual and I'm in love with a boy and a girl?

Question

Well you see im bi and im in love with this girl but im also in love with this boy, i dont know what to do because the boy wants me to choose between him and the girl, the delemia is I dont know who to choose.

The story with the girl,

She has been there for me 100% for the three months I knew her and she would never intentionaly hurt me but I cant see her because her mom wont allow us to have any communication because of the whole bi thing, she dont approve.

And the boy,

well,

he's a different story, we've tryed going out two times and in the end i got hurt both times,

he claims this time will be different and that he's really falling in love with me and a whole bunch of other stuff,

he was my first love, first heart break, first everything, but im scared to get hurt again.

He said he won't JUST be friends with me.

Any advice on what I should do?

:/

Answer 1

The boy sounds like trouble.  He has already had two chances and he stuffed it.  Why let him stuff it again.  If he says it wont be JUST friends then say in that case goodbye.

As for the girl.  

What can you do.  Mum has stepped in.  

Forget her and move on.  

Before you know it someone new will appear out of no where.  When that happens, if your free you available.  

Answer 2

Girl she sounds so much nicer ;) And who do you think you will have more fun playing with me and why :P get back to me

Answer 3

Have them both and make a nice threesome

Answer 4

Why isn't this happening to me? :)

Answer 5

Follow your heart.

But from an outsiders opinion, sounds like you should go with the girl. The boy seems unstable when it comes to holding a relationship, and the girl has been there for you for a very long time plus you cant let parents get in the way of relationships no matter what the circumstances n stuff.

good luck x

Answer 6

i dunt liek how the boy is pressuring u. its wrong to force people to make ultimatums. an its wrong to be imapatient weth ur heart which goes by its own tiem. i thenk when ur not sure, its often cause neither of them are right for u. if u cant decide i dunt see why u have to force urself. ur heart will tell u when its ready to make a comitment into a relationship. if waiting for ur heart to be ready isnt gud enough for him, hes not gud enough for u ♥ Never, date soemone pressuring u to date them. the pressure they put on u to do whatever they want wont end after u say yes  

Answer 7

Guy sounds bad... put money on heartache. The girl seems inaccessable... not sure you won't take the lesser of two evils and go for heartache because you can't reach the girl.

Remember that bi doesn't give you one of each... my friend was like that... you only get one that's important.

Answer 8

You should choose whoever you love the best. But if you want my opinion, I'd say choose the girl. If this boy screwed up twice, he's liable to do it again. It may be hard with the girl's mother intervening in your relationship, but it should be worth it if this girl treats you well.

Answer 9

I'd go with the girl. She sounds far nicer and more trustworthy. There must be ways to see her without your mum knowing.

Answer 10

I'd say the girl, she seems the right one for you. look in your heart and see what that tells u, u will find your answer there