I'm bisexual and in a relationship with a girl. Now I've come out to most of my family as is, but I know my?

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(continued) grandmother and father may be if-y on me being bisexual. My father has actually told me that people like "that" (g*y/les/bi) have something mentally wrong with them but he accepts his girlfriend that is bisexual. My grandmother is perfectly fine with g*y/les/bi, but she has such a strong opinion against my girlfriend that its close to the point of hate. How can I tell them about my sexual orientation with out them freaking out or trying to get me to end things with my girlfriend?

Answer 1

Be honest and accept what you are.  Don't take the advice of the bible thumpers telling you to condemn your sexuality.  If your family loves you they will accept you for who and what you are.  If they have a problem with your girlfriend you are either in a world of pain or they will accept her as just another significant other to the family.

Answer 2

your father girlfriend is bi and if you tell him your bi he shouldn't reticule you you for being g*y while hes having s*x with a g*y girl. and your grand mother still talks about your gf tell her that that makes you unhappy and she should have to deal with it because your going to keep your gf around until she makes you unhappy

Answer 3

wow  im a little confused but heres what i think...

wait...i got nothing. im rele confused.

Answer 4

well, i know it is very hard, and you are probably not wanting to hear this, but

just tell them.

hints:

1. tell them one on one, not in a group.

2. if they dont like it, do not feel bad because you cannot control what they do. if they want to be that way, it is their choice.