I'm bixsexual and in love with a boy and a girl ?

Question

Well you see im bi and im in love with this girl but im also in love with this boy, i dont know what to do because the boy wants me to choose between him and the girl, the delemia is I dont know who to choose.

The story with the girl,

She has been there for me 100% for the three months I knew her and she would never intentionaly hurt me but I cant see her because her mom wont allow us to have any communication because of the whole bi thing, she dont approve.

And the boy,

well,

he's a different story, we've tryed going out two times and in the end i got hurt both times,

he claims this time will be different and that he's really falling in love with me and a whole bunch of other stuff,

he was my first love, first heart break, first everything, but im scared to get hurt again.

He said he won't JUST be friends with me.

Any advice on what I should do?

:/ (please be serious)

Answer 1

Hmm I think you should go with the girl. I am straight and from my perspective, I really think you should go with that girl

The guy seems like he's leading you on and is after a piece of @$$ from the way I see it. C'mon, he hurt you so much, there is no point of going out with him again when you know he's just going to hurt you even more. Its just a horrible cycle from the sound of it.

You sound like you have more of a connection with the girl. Go for it.

But, if she really is going to get into trouble with her mom if you do, I'd say wait it out with her. Its just going to get worse if you can't be around her anymore if you choose to go out with her.

Answer 2

The boy has issued a ultimatum. Toss him. Even if there wasn't a girl, you can't trust him. Kick him to the curb

Answer 3

Stay single, if its meant to be with either of them, then it will happen naturally without having to pick one.

Just dont lead either of them on.

Answer 4

i understood ur problem..in the case of the boy u r being hurt both times...

that's natural coz u both r from different genders...but still u should stay with that boy because its a long lasting relationship...forget that girl because she will spoil u...see u r having a male friend this means u r smart & more pretty & ur female friend i not having any boy friend that means she is trying to use u.My suggestion is leave that girl to her destiny & love ur boyfriend.

Answer 5

You say your in love with two people, the girl you love has been there for you 100% but you are forbidden your love because her mum don't approve, and that guy you say you love has hurt you 2 times do you really want to go down that road again, you dated twice and they both failed clearly this guy isn't for you, so try it with this girl yea her mum forbids it but how dose this girl feel about you? if she feels the same as you do about her then i would say forget what her mum says live dangerously hide your love from everyone else until you are both certain you want to be together have the romeo and Juliet scene they where forbidden to see each other but instead they hid their love from everyone

Hope you make the right choice

GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

If 1 of them continues to hurt you and the other doesn't then the choice is simple.Always follow your heart but don't forget to still think with your head.

Answer 7

Wow, both are messed up, The girl you can't be with cause her mom and the guy has had two chances and blew it both times, I doubt a third will make a difference.

I suggest just finding a new boyfriend and ditching them both.

Answer 8

one or the other, greedy

Answer 9

the guy cant give you an ultimatum!

go for the girl

=)

she sounds cool

Answer 10

I dont like Bisexuals.

Answer 11

aww hunny,  your in a really difficult posistion. im straight but it sounds to me like the girl is the best bet, maybe you two should sit down and talk to her mother together, communication is the best way to make somthing work after all,

also that boy has hurt u twice? are u really going to believe hes changed. i did that... they dont change.  

Answer 12

I believe that the girl's mother is correct. The guidance you seek is in The Holy Bible which is the word of God. God loves all of us even though we are sinners; But I don't believe He approves of the homosexual act.