I'm black and my boyfriend is White, Where both 14 And my parents hate him..?

Question

I'm black and my boyfriend is white..

My parents hate him..because he is white..and they wont let me see him or talk to him anymore, But lately when i go to the mall or tell my parents im hanging with my girlfriends i have been meeting up with him, we love each other but How do we tell my parents that im pregnant with his baby?

Answer 1

secretly get an abortion.

or just tell them.

you dont have that many options

Answer 2

they cant do anything about it so wat does it matter just tell them and if they dont like it they will have to get over it.

Answer 3

Its sucks to be you!

Answer 4

you have two basic options:

1) get a secret abortion (if you can).

2) tell them.

Answer 5

omg ur pregnant....i suggest that if ur parents are crazy people and ur afraid of wut they're gonna do tell them in front of an observer wow...that sucks

Answer 6

Well first of all this question seem kinda fake!!

Second your parents are racist

third GET AN ABORTION

Answer 7

If i were you i would think about what you want. Do you really want to be a mother at 14? Your life will be ruined. This is your own mess, be strong and just sit both parents down and break it to them as easily as you can. They could help you with your decision.

Answer 8

cut him, get a hanger and do the abortion yourself. or get a friend to do it.

Answer 9

wow

harsh

some 14 year olds can be in love!!!!

..the majority of them arent but some actually are.

and are you sure that you're pregnant?

and if you are then...say that you're pregnant with someone elses baby?

lol

or just tell them

Answer 10

You're lying.

Answer 11

you could phrase it like, "i told you that you should've given me some money for condoms! - this is all your fault!"

Answer 12

yeah this does sound rather fake... hmmmm and yeah your 14 i highly doubt you know what love is. are guys or girls even fertile at 14? any way if you are really pregnant then maybe you should have used protection or not have done anything at all. BAH HUMBUG

Answer 13

Very carefully...

I mean, you're 14. How much of a hooker must you feel like right now?

Answer 14

this is so fake.

you want attention. your not getting it from me.

14 year olds are not in love!!

Answer 15

well wat you expect....your 14 and you messed up your stupid life....your prob.....

Answer 16

If you are pregnant, they will eventually be able to tell. I imagine you are still in school, I suggest you talk to one of the councilors there or a favourite teacher for some advice. If they really don't know how to broach this dilema you're in they may be able to direct you to someone who can. Or, seek out a youth councilor from the boys and girls club, also there may be a teen line you may contact.

No lecture, but did you not make him use protection so that you could get pregnant? Young relations as yours seldom ever are life long lasting. Make sure that if you go through to full term, whether or not your parents want anything to do with this young man, make sure he is partly responsible of the babies up keep, and make sure he is always a part of this child's life! Possibly you're parents are opposed to your relationship with this young man, not that he's white, but because they were afraid you'd get pregnant at a young age, also that school is still very important at 14 so neither of you should quit and most important of all, especially depending where you live, a child from a mixed relation may have a great deal of problems with both races as well as you and your boy friend.

Please, if you are going to have s*x, don't do it unprotected not just jprevent pregnancy, but STD's as well.

Good luck!!!