Ok so I make "better than average" money. And at work my supervisor and manager and our group go out to eat lunch a lot. Recently I went through a horrible break up. We spent $6,000 on a trip and planned on saving money by moving into a one bedroom together when we got back because our lease was up. 3 days after we got back he dumped me and I was forced to get my own place and all new furniture, dishes, towels, washer/dryer.... EVERYTHING. My bills doubled. Now I'm broke. The problem is that the people at my work just expect me to have money. I'm sick of saying I can't go and sometimes they hassle me or offer to pay. I don't like taking money from people. Also, we have a lot of activities. Like today we're going bowling and my supervisor just said "Hey let's go to Target and all buy shirts and we'll go out to eat first." I can't be the only one on the team without a shirt. And I have no money to eat.
How can I put it nicely without embarrassing myself? I just can't go out with them like I used to.......................
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