I'm confused and unsure on what to do?

Question

I'll prefer to hear opinions from other guys since they will most likely understand this situation, but ladies feel free to comment.

OK I liked this girl until I met her sister......long story short:

I liked Sister A, I met Sister B (Didn't know her, she just randomly started talking to me in the hall way), I want Sister B (?), but I had feelings for Sister A until I met Sister B.

All my feelings just went away, I don't feel the same when I'm around Sister A. It'll be hard to talk to Sister B since she is a freshmen and I'm a sophomore (rarely see her). Should I just *forget about them both, ask sister A out (The One I originally liked), or should I try and get to know Sister B and go from there? *

Its not like I can date the next if the other relationship doesn't work out (they are sisters you know?). But my point of view of dating is to see who I'm most compatible with....

PS: Sorry if this is confusing, tried to explain it in the most shortest way possible without going in to too much detail.

Answer 1

Don't pursue either of them. By going out with one, you'll without a doubt hurt the other. This could be the cause for tension between the sisters and that could be easily prevented on your part. If you know what's best for their relationship, you'll leave them be.

Answer 2

Female or not, here's my insight.  I also have the same theory on dating, that it's pretty much a blind search to find the people that add to your personal happiness and are easy and fun to be with.  I think I actually for the first time defined my understanding of love...When you love someone, being with them makes you forget all the bad stuff, if even for just a minute.  Anyways, the point i was working on making is that you should go for the one you really like.  You won't get a second chance to do it again the right way, so while trying to not hurt Sister A, get to know Sister B and see if it's her you really want to be with before doing anything brash.