Ok I have a roommate that's female (i'm male). We dated 3 years ago and just dropped contact. Then we started talking about a year ago and she ended up needing help and moved in with me. My friends have been pushing me to ask her out again, and for the past 3 months I've refused. She just doesn't seem interested in me. We flirt some, insult each other jokingly, I get hit a lot, we play fight. I've told her a few times that I'm considering just staying single till I finish college, and she's made sure to tell me that she's not looking for a boyfriend for a while till she gets her life straightened out, but if a relationship happens then it happens. We've had a few conversations about what kind of guys she likes, she pretty much describes my personality, but she's dated a lot of guys that have the same personality as me that treated her horribly.
She has a child (not mine) and I'm having a lot of fun with the two of them. I really care about her daughter, and I'm starting to develop feeling for my roommate. Though she tells me she doesn't want a boyfriend, she's still flirting with me. It's s******g with my head.
I know the advice I always give people is to just tell the person how you feel. The problem here is we still have 9 more months of lease to go through and it could make things weird.
I just don't know what to do. Anyone have any advice?
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