I'm confused! what do you think??

Question

i have this friend and he is really sweet and a good person. he makes me laugh all the time. he always looks into my eyes when we talk and his lets his gaze linger even when he's done talking. we were in this haunted house and i think that he knew that i was a little shaky so he held my hand at one point. i asked him to sing for me and he did. he always makes fun of me for the stupidest things. im18 and he's 21 by the way. i dont know im just so confused because i don't know him that well. his parents are good friends wit my parents so i just met him last year and we went to the beach together this summer. i was texting my friend and he was like "stop texting your boyfriend". this happened like 3 times. i told him that i didn't have one. i was thinking that maybe he was trying to find out if i have one...but i dont know... he told me that i was a nice person. he was also talking about how when i get married he'll be there making jokes about me in front of everyone. i dont know....i feel like i've known him forever, when really i've only spent like five days hanging out with him.

what do you think??

Answer 1

teaser but might like u if they try to find out if u have a bf thats usually the trick

Answer 2

I say he likes you and I think you should go for it hang out wiht him a little more get to know him better and dream!! GO FOR IT!!

Answer 3

Hmm, you shouldve told him to give you his number so you can text him instead?!? lol  I think there may be some attraction, but it also seems he would have made a move by now..  

Answer 4

Sounds like it could go either way. Obviously a spark there, and neither of you are sure if you should take the next step, . I think your right the "stop texting your boyfriend" is a passive test to see if there is a possiblity, The married comment, saying he'll always be there for you...at a certain point he'll pass into friend mode and either move on or look at you more like a sister.

So if you are interested, find out and talk to him. You can ease into as a joke, then get serious, then if he gets uncomfotable you have a out saying...got you!  :)

Answer 5

Ask the guy out.

Answer 6

There are a couple of things that could be going on here.  One, he could be one of those few that is just a really nice guy and he is just trying to be your friend in a kind of brotherly way.  Two, he could like you, but I am not sure.  I think you should just ask him.  On top of this, he may just see you as a little sister he never had, who knows?

Honestly, I would just enjoy the time you spend with him because he sounds like a great guy.

Answer 7

I think he really likes you, and from what I have

read you like him too. But somethings bothering

you, was it a past relationship? Or is it just the

fact that you haven't known him long enough?

Do you get a good vibe from this guy? Or do

you think that he's just another one of those

guys? I've had guys ask me all the time just

stupid things like if I say I'm going shopping

they would be like with your boyfriend? And

I would be like no I don't have one. It's just

their weird way of finding out if we have one.

But if you like him go for it, unless you have

something that's holding you back. Just

spend more time getting to know him!