I'm depressed about being single!?

Question

I am 28 and not married and it is starting to get depressing. Like I tried to enjoy being single, I traveled and all that but now I'm totally wanting to settle down but i live in a super small town. I feel stuck

Answer 1

I am 15... I am depressed about being single too!! I live in a small town too! small towns suck bcuz the choices are so limited. Move to Minneapolis. Minneapolis is a great city.

I wish I had a bf!!!! :'(

Answer 2

Well Join the crowd, I have been married 2x's and dvcd 2x's, I have been single for the last 9 years, I have dated 2 times in the 9 yrs, I started out trying to find what was really important to me, and get my thoughts in order, but it sorta lasted a lot longer than I had planned,  Now, Myself I am 48 and many times I have been depressed over being single, but one thing I did find, I have to be happy with myself in order for someone else to be happy with me, Now happy or very much liking myself, or even just being able to accept myself was such a milestone for myself,  Since age 13 I have been a Crossdressing male, It is so very hard to find women who are openminded enough to allow a man into her life that has as much or more lingerie than she has, BUT then to find a woman who is accepting of a Cross Dressing male where she would be able to have fun with it as well,  So needless to say I hate being single as well, I have just learned to accept and deal with it.  So hey Ginger Do you feel you are pretty openminded ? Have you ever considered dating a CrossDresser ?  

Answer 3

U can try a partnetr , ofcourse  make a good choice. As u r 28 u don't have much time to have many more tries.

Answer 4

I knew my sister (who is an extreme feminist) was full of c**p when she said "women dont need men today".  Human nature doesn't work that way. Nobody wants to be alone (besides L*****n feminists),.

I grew up in  a city where there is a new girl to talk to every 3 steps you take and as such I have never been without a lover since the age of 13. Its hard to be lonely in a city. You might want to leave that small town and move to a city (or a city suburb) where meeting people is easy and there is a dating service every 50th block.

Answer 5

I'm 24, and I know what you mean. I am not so much depressed about being single as I am depressed that I am alone but still wanting someone at the same time. Maybe it is time for a change for you! Small towns don't help the situation, you need to get out there and meet people but it is really hard if you are in a small town. Maybe it's time to think of moving up and out! Or take an extended vacation in a big city where there are a lot more singles. Good luck honey, try not to let yourself get too down, although I know its hard. Just remember that you are a special person and you deserve something special, sometimes it's just harder to find.

Answer 6

im depressed about it too but im 13

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Answer 7

the internet eill help, try going to pubs and stuff like that go out to meet people, get agym membership this helps with meeting the men always, im 28 with four kids and i wish i had more time to do more stuff for me that i like doing and most of the time i wish i was single dont be in a rush, your true love is there but when the time is right it will happen

Answer 8

Go visit family in a bigger town or visit a friend who moved away.  

Answer 9

so while u traveled didn't u meet nice men? cos if u didn't it was useless. once i went to abroad to visit my internet friend and on the way back met a really nice guy on the plane who became my bf. so this what i call traveling. if u just go somewhere and walk through museums it is just sightseeing. i suggest u start traveling again and start going out more often. i found my perfect man at a night club - he is so perfect i can't stop being surprised why did he fall in love with me

Answer 10

im 18 and depressed about not having a gf

but it seems its far more of a difficult situation for you

try something different

move to another city or try online dating?

you have to put yourself out there

Answer 11

you're still young, and being single is a blessing!!!

depression is just futile and won't help you be happy...

always look at the bright side..

and always remember that you're not alone.

your soulmate is alone too, waiting for you guys to meet. : )

hope you find him...

and if you feel like you're stuck in a small town then why don't you move?

ENJOY LIFE !!! : )

Answer 12

u said u travel a lot why not continue and look at places where u travel and maybe think about moving there.....Your still young you have time.

Answer 13

if you are lonely answer this ad http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5DVxzU8fP...

Answer 14

You and me both.

Answer 15

Well, maybe that's the problem. A super small town doesn't have that many options so if it's affecting you to the point that you're feeling depressed, do something about it and move out. It's time to meet more people. :)

Answer 16

go inside and understand yourself .You are not in a relationship because its not the right time or their are blocks within you that are stopping you from getting in a relationship.

Do you like the town you live in?

Do you like yourself ?

Whats happened in your last relationship?

What kind of guy are you looking for ?

Answer 17

hangout with your friends.

they might introduce some guy to you in mid time.

enjoy life now, don't be stressed.

spend more time with family/friends as you will never know when they will leave you.