I'm disturbed about her.?

Question

I'm disturbed,

i have this best friend who is a teacher. we are so close, we share problems to each other by text in Cell phone. i pick her up every Friday so we could have some bonding moments.

but there's one thing that I'm disturbed about her.

whenever we pass by each other (together w/ my friends) she will just look down. I'm waiting for her to look at me but no. it's like she never sees me.

it's so disturbing. i don't know if she's just faking me?

i can't understand why she's like that..

please help!

--In our country.. befriending a teacher is ok.

Answer 1

I'm not clear what you mean by faking you.  

You say that she is your best friend in that you share problems by phone and text.  If you meet up on Fridays when you pick her up why not discuss the situation with her then?  

Best friends should be able to discuss behavioral issues one with the other if one of them does or says things which upsets the other.

It could be that the teacher is too embarrassed to acknowledge you when you are with your other friends. It could even be she may fear that you will abandon her in favor of your other friends.

Honestly the best thing to do is discuss the issues that are bothering you.  Best friends should be able to do this without fear of giving offence.

I hope this helps you.

Good luck.