I'm email friend with a married guy. How do I know if his wife knows we are friends?

Question

I met a guy almost two years ago in a business, he was my customer and I delivered some radios for his company. He left two weeks later but we only talk 2 times. I contacted him a month later to say Hi, and he replied right away. I Found out he's married, so I decided to go friendly to not get into trouble and so did he. So, I can say we are friends, we keep in touch by email. He talks about family, kids he has from a previous marriage, etc.

But, I wonder if his wife knows about me, cuz when he had sent me pics of him is only of himself and no family included, so I guess is to be protective.

I always send him and family good wishes and he thanks them, but he never mentions his wife saying Hi, or something.

He had told me he enjoys our friendship and communications and sho care for me, I mean for being a stranger he met twice he does.

What can I do to find out if what we have is out of danger with her, since I don't even know her name?

Answer 1

I really hate to say this, but there is no way around this situation, as the woman before on the outside I found out that my husband had a "friend" which I never knew the name of or never even communicated with and then he turned around and cheated on me with her. It can never be a good thing unless you actually get to talk or chat with the wife and become friends with her as well.

Answer 2

What do you care if your just friends? Are you trying to s***w a married man & worried about his wife finding out? I'm sure she's doesn't know or he wouldn't be talking to you! Get a life & stay out of his!!!

Answer 3

If he hardly mentions her and you don't even know her name, it's highly likely she doesn't know anything about your so called "friendship".  I think you're treading on dangerous grounds here and this man's behavior suggests he wants to keep you secret from his wife.

Answer 4

No his wife does not know who you are! He is wrong for only showing pics of himself. He may have told you he's married, but he did not tell his wife about you.