I'm embarrased to go ride my bike, rollerblade, run in my town?

Question

i'm 16 and i've always felt that way. i just feel like people are staring at me. especially when i go past people my age. sometimes kids, like skaters, will even make comments when you pass them. anyone have any advise on how to get rid of my discomfort?

Answer 1

sometimes i feel the same way.

ha if someone gives you a dirty look or makes a nasty comment just flick them off lol =]

Answer 2

I totally know what you mean I feel the same way... get someone to go with you so you have something else to concentrate on... people are less likely to say anything if you are alone

Answer 3

Dont be embarrased. Dont let people get to you

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Answer 4

So in other words...you think you look awkward doing these things?

Well,i think that you have nothing to worry about

those are all healthy and normal activities and

nothing to be embarrassed about but i know what

you mean.

It's like how some girls are apprehensive about eating

in front of guys.

Answer 5

Just try to be more confident. Most people won't care, you're just another person going by and they're probably occupied with their own activities. They might give you a passing glance, but they'll forget about it completely as soon as you've passed. Enjoy what you're doing, and don't worry about anything else.

Answer 6

i feel the same way instead when they stare you stare back until they look away

Answer 7

I feel the same way. It is weird. I am 21 with a 15 month old and now he rides on my bike with me. I just try to look ahead and not care. You could also smile too. I look at people on bikes too when I am driving or sitting on the porch, don't think of it like, they are talking bad about you or even talking to you at all. Just have fun and you can even listen to music or just think about whatever and look ahead.

Answer 8

hahaha, i have the exact same problem.

Answer 9

Don't worry about what others think...

Answer 10

You know what I've always wondered if I was the only one who felt this. It does feel like that doesn't it? and I know exactly what you mean it seems to be much more common when its people my age. (Im 17)

I honestly don't know what the cause of this is, I suppose its hormones.

Here's how I fought it I kept saying to myself Im strong and if you dont like me get out of my way. If they give you a look act like your not effected. What recently made me feel comfortable is when they start staring at me I stare at them back. Just build up some confidence you can do it. I think I overcame this feeling you just need to build yourself up.